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@TexChik Frank, but utterly true. 💯

@TexChik just speaking for myself but those all seem very shallow. I prefer someone who is honest, understanding, and compassionate towards others.

@LilPrincess it is , life is cruel. However the reality at 50 years old would you want a relationship with someone in poor health, and /or is overweight , has poor hygiene habits , doesn’t like sex, and has a mountain of debt and is always asking for help . Shallow or not , that person is not going to find anyone .

@TexChik barring ‘birds of a feather…’

@TexChik It’s being realistic. When you start out a relationship with those conditions at that stage of life it’s likely to not get any better. Some can change when they are younger & are in better health & have more energy but by middle-age they are less likely to adapt and change for the better.

@TexChik minus the poor hygiene habits...i have known plenty of people that have.