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Have you ever known someone who accused you of the things that they鈥檙e actually doing?

Like hardcore projection to throw the blame onto you. They believe their own lies.
AlchemyFox
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DearAmbellina2113 路 41-45, F
My MOTHER actually does this. She is bad about lying when it comes to money (she has a horrible shopping addiction), so she was always accusing me of lying or stealing money. None of which I ever did.
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AlchemyFox 路 36-40, F
@DearAmbellina2113 Like why???? It鈥檚 so twisted. My grandmother is like that, still at like 95. Some people never learn personal accountability and have no idea how stupid and destructive they are blaming everyone else.
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SW-User
Someone lied badly about me, idk what they wanted, but they definitely lied lots after blocking me and after playing mind games with me. I don't think this was a case of projection.. But definitely something was really off about them, the lies and everything
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AlchemyFox 路 36-40, F
@SW-User there鈥檚 some twisted kittens on here for sure. Their self absorption is almost frightening. Except to do it online is so so cowardly.
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LilPrincess 路 41-45, F
I have a list
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LilPrincess 路 41-45, F
@AlchemyFox damn skippy 馃槀
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SwampFlower 路 31-35, F
Oh yeah. You learn pretty quickly that they're just telling on themselves.
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wildbill83 路 36-40, M
yep, pretty much everyone (including many on SW) that has called me a racist, extremist, etc.

It's a sad state of affairs when a marxist hedonist accuses a flag waving patriot of being a domestic terrorist... 馃
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Virgo79 路 61-69, M
@wildbill83 good description here鈽濓笍
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Ducky 路 31-35, F
Projection, absolutely. It took me a while to figure it out. I used to call people on it, but now I just laugh it off. That鈥檚 a professional鈥檚 job.
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AlchemyFox 路 36-40, F
@Ducky I鈥檝e been naive for many years listening to people who were definitely projecting. Done now.
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Carissimi 路 70-79, F
Yes. It鈥檚 narcissistic behavior. Those people are toxic, and should be avoided.
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Magenta 路 F
Yes. On here for sure. Not in my personal life.
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11knaves11 路 41-45, M
Here how it go, you doing something. Then that individual who can not do what I can do tells me how it should be done...but then they Fuck everything up THEN play dumb....
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AlchemyFox 路 36-40, F
@11knaves11 that kinda person is always unaccountable for their bullshit. I don鈥檛 let anyone tell me shit anymore.
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Fairydust 路 F
Yeah my gaslighting ex. That was something else 馃檮馃懞
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AlchemyFox 路 36-40, F
@Fairydust so crazy! I鈥檓 thinking back on it and realizing the things I鈥檓 being accused of were actually what was done to me. Even serious things I went to the doc for. The sad part is it鈥檚 been weeks and I鈥檓 still figuring it all out. I believed and felt bad.

People that fuck with your head through your heart should die.
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Fairydust 路 F
@AlchemyFox

Yep it鈥檚 messed up 馃槓
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Lilymoon 路 F
Yeah I have a family member that does this.... pure narcissism. 馃檮
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MissingLink 路 51-55, M
Yes, had to cut off the relationship for my own sanity.
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TexChik 路 F
Politically yes . Personally no
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Fungirlmmm 路 51-55, F
Not really. The only person I care really what they think doesn't play those things. Btw I just realized after you posted your pic today whay 420 is in your name lol. Btw you are cool in my book. You make me smile with your real presence and I am so glad you are allowing me to know you some.
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Nebula 路 41-45, F
Yeah, and I actually would feel guilty because I hate upsetting people 馃
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AlchemyFox 路 36-40, F
@Nebula Yup! I think I鈥檝e done it most my life 馃槅 Definitely onto it now though discarding some shame.
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Eddiesolds 路 61-69, M
Yes thats why i told them where to go. I don't miss them at all. Very nasty so called people
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DrWatson 路 70-79, M
That is what narcissists and emotional abusers do. Yes, I have experienced it.
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Piper 路 61-69, F
Yes, and it's a finely honed and deliberate "mind game" for some individuals.
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Banksy83 路 36-40, M
You must not empower narcissists cut them from your life girl.
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SW-User
Yup. It's way more common than ya think.
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SumKindaMunster 路 51-55, M
Pfft, this website is full of people like that.
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KelXtraAF 路 31-35, F
This is pretty common in cheating situations.
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fun4us2b 路 M
Yes, very creepy person I'm thinking of...FIL's ex...
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cherokeepatti 路 61-69, F
My ex, it鈥檚 a mark of a narcissist to do that.
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Ferric67 路 M
This happens to me almost daily.

Hell, if anything goes haywire I seem to get universally blamed by everyone for everything.

I don't mind taking credit for what I've done, but I don't like to be given credit for things that I have yet to do.
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BarbossasHusband 路 36-40, M
My mom
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QueenOfTheNerds 路 41-45, F
Yep. 馃檭
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iamonfire696 路 41-45, F
Yes I have. My husband does this, so well that I question myself at times.

I am glad you are seeing it鈥檚 not you. It can be hard to see at times.
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Banksy83 路 36-40, M
@iamonfire696 you still putting up with that psycho
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iamonfire696 路 41-45, F
@Banksy83 I am, he鈥檚 bad when he鈥檚 manic. When he鈥檚 not it鈥檚 better.
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Jeephikelove 路 46-50, F
Yup!! 馃槀
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NotSureAboutMyUserName 路 31-35, M
YES馃檨
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Ghostinthemachine 路 M
I鈥檝e been accused of having multiple accounts on here.
By people with multiple accounts on here.

Who鈥檚 got time for that? I鈥檓 barely here on this account
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Starcrossed 路 41-45, F
My kid's father is a covert narcissist and projects and gaslights all the time.
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SarithBorn 路 18-21, M
Not that i am aware of but tbh it's a waste of their time. 馃槆
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SW-User
Projectionist 馃槍. Plenty of them on here 馃え
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BizSuitStacy 路 M
Kind of a daily thing here
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Darin99branch 路 51-55, M
Yup.
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candycane 路 31-35, F
Yes many on here,
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