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My younger brother passed away yesterday…..

My older brother was getting married yesterday. Everyone was busy and excited. No one had heard from S by lunch time. Thought he had slept in. He works such long hours. Drinks a bit too much before bed. So nothing out of the ordinary… We found him on the floor. He was only 35.
Life’s not fair.
We don’t know what happened, we’re waiting on the coroner’s report.
We didn’t know his partner. They have a weird relationship. But someone needs to tell his kids. Their 6 and 7. They need to be told. My other niece posted the news on Facebook in hopes of finding S’s partner. Now all rest of the family know and it’s too much for my parents. Nobody wants to outlive their own kid. This sucks. I haven’t had time myself to grieve… I just needed to get this off my chest without people relying on me or wanting to talk…
turbineman40 · 80-89, M
I lost my wife of thirty five years in August 2022. I am here if you want to talk.
So sorry for your loss.
@turbineman40 I'm so sorry. 💔😢
turbineman40 · 80-89, M
@BizSuitStacy Thank you
nedkelly · M
Very sorry for your loss, no words will help you through this paid
Viper · M
I'm so extremely sorry 😔

I want to saw something that'll make you feel better, but there is absolutely nothing that can (at least that I know of).

Be well man, and remember, to take care of others, you first need to take care of yourself! Which is why airlines say put your mask on first before helping someone else with theirs.

To best help others, you might need to take care of yourself first, before worrying or stressing out too much about others.

Exercising, sleeping and verbally talking out loud (even if just to yourself or to a pet or something) are great ways to help one's brain with mental stress.

I wish I could help more, be well man 🤗
turbineman40 · 80-89, M
@Viper Thank you. I am making it pretty good so far. There are a moments that I break over but most of the time I am going on solid in life
kodiac · 22-25, M
So sorry for your loss i try to think of it as them just going home[media=]
Thevy29 · 36-40, M
@kodiac That's a beautiful song.
So sorry, Thevy ☹️ What horrible timing too…. I bet everyone in your family is in shock! Hugssss, my friend.

Stay strong, and look after your parents and see if the kids need you. I hope the partner has the kids….

Sorry for your other brother too…this is unbelievably tragic.
Sorry for your loss. It’s not easy to lose family. And the heartbreak is more painful when it is unexpected.

I wish pray that your parents will have the strength to deal with this.

May your brother’s soul rest in peace.
Speakyourmind · 26-30, M
My condolences to you and your family for the loss. It’s never easy to lose family members.
LunarOrbit · 56-60, M
I don’t think there is a loss greater than losing a sibling.

So sorry. Thats way too young :/
Slade · 56-60, M
I had a friend die suddenly yesterday. Far too young.

It's like a kick in the nads
turbineman40 · 80-89, M
Sorry about your losing your brother. My deepest condolences to you and your family
carpediem · 61-69, M
Just awful. So sorry. My condolences to you and your family.
I’m so very sorry for your loss…

My condolences…. 🤗🤗
Prayers for you and family
iamelijah · 26-30, F
I'm so sorry for your loss.
TESSA111 · 51-55, F
So sorry to hear about your loss.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
Sorry for your loss mate 😓
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
So sorry for your loss.
Budwick · 70-79, M
I am so sorry for the grief you and your family must be experiencing.

And so young! A bitter reminder that tomorrow isn't promised to anyone.

My sincere condolences.
Mktonght · 61-69, M
I understand the trauma, been there but it is always different in a number of ways.
No talki, just a prayer for peace for you and the family.
Nothing I can say to help, but I'm wishing you the absolute best buddy 🙏
Thomas52 · 70-79, M
What a devastating thing to happen. My sincere sympathies.
fun4us2b · M
Very sorry to hear this. Condolences to you and your family
Benjago · 41-45, M
Terrible man, sorry for you and your family's loss.
uncalled4 · 51-55, M
Sorry to hear this. My aunt passed suddenly from a brain aneurysm yesterday....we are all taking our lumps out here.
Thevy29 · 36-40, M
@uncalled4 Sorry for your lose. Life feels very sucky at the moment.
starmitz · 51-55, F
Oh geez Thevy I'm so sorry 😞🌹
GunFinger · F
I'm so sorry for your loss..
Slade · 56-60, M
OMG that's awful. I'm so sorry 😞
akindheart · 61-69, F
i am very sorry. that is very young.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
I'm sorry for your loss.
Justmeraeagain · 51-55, F
I am so sorry, how awful .
Becks048 · F
So very sorry.
I'm very sorry.
I'm so sorry 💔😢
Mithraia · 31-35, M
Holy fuck I am so very very sorry to hear about this. Talking helps, so I hope you can begin to process what happened by interacting with the good people who exist on this site :(
4meAndyou · F
Oh my gosh, Thevy. I am SO sorry. That is an extreme shock for all of you. I hope and pray that they will find his partner, and that his kids will be well cared for.

OldMan70 · 70-79
Sad times in your family.
Sorry for their loss.
Losing a sibling early is really hard, regardless of the circumstances.
ReneeT · 61-69, M
I am so sorry to hear about your brother. And being so young, with a life time ahead of him.
Pretzel · 61-69, M
sorry for your loss.
thats way too young.
I am so sorry to hear this terribly sad news
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
Oh, my, so terrible. My condolences to your family.
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
Im so sorry to here that, what a shock.
Confined · 51-55, M
OMG. So sorry to hear.
Fairydust · F
I’m so sorry 💔💔💔
I’m so sorry ! 😞
So sorry for your loss, that is just awful, and on what is meant to be a happy occasion too
35 is way too young, that's so sad, I'm so sorry for your loss 😭🙏
Stereoguy · 56-60, M
I am so sorry for your loss. 💔😢

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