Does anyone hold long grudges?

Back in high-school, there was a guy who I really hated. He didn't bully me or I didn't bully him but we just didn't really get along. I left high-school over ten years ago now and I forgot about about my deep dislike for him. I ran into him before the lockdown began and my hatred for him has come back. I'm trying to understand why I feel that way because I've never been that kind of a bitter person before.

It's got me thinking, do any of you guys still hold grudges which have lasted a long time?

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Crazychick · 36-40, F

I do when people get on the wrong side of me. It has nothing to do with gender.

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stevenjames93 · 26-30, M

@Crazychick out of curiosity, which other terms or phrases such as that would you find offensive/demeaning.

bijouxbroussard · F

@Crazychick But apparently that’s not true everywhere, either.

Crazychick · 36-40, F

@stevenjames93 Too many to list here. It would be quicker to go through my answers in my profile (I'm not one of those sinister trolls who hides them, so feel free to look).

MasterLee · 56-60, M

Liberals hold grudges for years. TDS is still at a ferver.

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Crazychick · 36-40, F

@MasterLee Don't talk to me about the word "fanny". Let us concentrate on "ferver". Can you show me that in an online dictionary, please?

MasterLee · 56-60, M

@Crazychick I am too tired to spar with you.

Crazychick · 36-40, F

@MasterLee Well, let me know when you are not tired then.

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

You have to really hurt me bad for me to hold on to a grudge. I’m usually fine in a couple of days.

smiler2012 · 56-60

stevenjames93 depends what the crime against me is people who bullied me at school and in my early life i bear a grudge against them even if it forty years almost since i left school i know it sounds small minded on my part but when you put up with arseholes like them for a long period makes you very angry and bitter

stevenjames93 · 26-30, M

@smiler2012 yeah the thing is that I like to see myself as a good person. Other grudges I’ve had, I’ve forgiven and forgotten. This one grudge though I can see it going for many years such as yourself.

smiler2012 · 56-60

@stevenjames93 i guess it is only a grudge like me only you yourself can end even though you have been deeply hurt only you can find forgiveness in your heart balls in our court i suppose

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stevenjames93 · 26-30, M

@tunechi that’s good. It means you’re a positive person

SStarfish ·

stevenjames93 · 26-30, M

@SStarfish how many years now?

SStarfish ·

@stevenjames93 at least ten

bijouxbroussard · F

I never forget. Even if I forgive on some level, I remember everything.

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