Can anyone make me believe in love again ?

@JerseyGal can you share how you got into "The same boat" too ? And how you are handling the difficult moments ?

Just allow people to know you, and I'm sure they'll see the good in you.
I don't want to get into what happened in my past or the difficult moments, etc on posts. I don't like putting too much personal info for everyone to read.
If need be, I discuss personally with someone I've come to know more.

Ok

What state are you in ?

i am a born and raised pennsylvanian.. but must apologize, as i do not give more info than that. this is the internet after all lol. anyhow, i must run along, it's past midnight here and i meant to be off ages ago. i hope you have a great night. Don't be so hard on yourself

Thanks for your words. I have to be up at 5:30am. If you're on tomorrow, a little chatting would be nice. That is if you'd like also. Goodnight.

@ElPhonse I cannot change how you feel with my words. I have always believed in love. I was unhappily married once for 30 years and I divorced him. I believe in love. You will either believe in it again or not. Perhaps you need time. If you don't open your heart, you will always feel the way you do. It would certainly be a tragedy. May I ask what happened?

@PoetryNEmotion My fault things went wrong. I was a flirt but I never ever sought the love nor the body of another woman. I did crave the attention and the whole intrigue of gaining an9ther persons love. Other men I have talked to about this ask me if I ever got into any of those women's pants. When I say no, they think she shouldn't habe made such a big deal. I understand though. There's too much to tell. I could never do the things I did, ever again. But now it's too late and regrets can't turn the clock back. So much to tell and no woman has the time for me.

@ElPhonse You identify the problem. She found it horrendous enough that she turned away from you. You say you will never do it again. I believe you. Time can never be regained. So you work from there. You have to learn from your mistakes and forgive yourself too.
There is no one "right one". I believe there are a number of ones that you may choose. If you choose one, you eliminate the others. So now you may move on. If you choose. Or you stay alone and like this forever. Choice is yours. I wish you well.

@ElPhonse It's very difficult to take a chance on love again. I'm in that boat too. So many things happen in life that were never supposed to happen. I guess what I'm trying to do is let go of expectations but hold onto possibilities and keep an open mind.

@LyricalOne it is hard indeed. I'm ready but there are alot of players and pretenders out there. Guys run into them too. 🤤

@ElPhonse Absolutely. Both genders have to be careful.

@Ladyryan my patience wanes,...

@ElPhonse And so does mine... lol

@Ladyryan how so, ladyryan ? What are you waiting for that has not yet come ?