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PoetryNEmotion · F
ElPhonse · M
@PoetryNEmotion I believed once for 21 years. That's gone. No more
PoetryNEmotion · F
@ElPhonse I cannot change how you feel with my words. I have always believed in love. I was unhappily married once for 30 years and I divorced him. I believe in love. You will either believe in it again or not. Perhaps you need time. If you don't open your heart, you will always feel the way you do. It would certainly be a tragedy. May I ask what happened?
ElPhonse · M
@PoetryNEmotion My fault things went wrong. I was a flirt but I never ever sought the love nor the body of another woman. I did crave the attention and the whole intrigue of gaining an9ther persons love. Other men I have talked to about this ask me if I ever got into any of those women's pants. When I say no, they think she shouldn't habe made such a big deal. I understand though. There's too much to tell. I could never do the things I did, ever again. But now it's too late and regrets can't turn the clock back. So much to tell and no woman has the time for me.
PoetryNEmotion · F
@ElPhonse You identify the problem. She found it horrendous enough that she turned away from you. You say you will never do it again. I believe you. Time can never be regained. So you work from there. You have to learn from your mistakes and forgive yourself too.
There is no one "right one". I believe there are a number of ones that you may choose. If you choose one, you eliminate the others. So now you may move on. If you choose. Or you stay alone and like this forever. Choice is yours. I wish you well.
There is no one "right one". I believe there are a number of ones that you may choose. If you choose one, you eliminate the others. So now you may move on. If you choose. Or you stay alone and like this forever. Choice is yours. I wish you well.