Can anyone make me believe in love again ?

@JerseyGal I once had the right one and I lost her. Could I believe there can be TWO,... of the right one ? How could it be ?

@ElPhonse I honestly believe that each of us have more than one chance to be with one we love. We love. We lose. We rise again after time in the hope to find someone right for us. Who knows. I say never say never. If you doubt, you leave yourself open to not finding someone. It hurts like hell losing the one we love, but I think it'd hurt even more to close one's self off completely.

@JerseyGal it's not voluntary. My experiences over the last three years have caused me to doubt love. Love doesn't give up or have a time limit. It's not supposed to end.

@ElPhonse Love doesn't always end. People change though. Any of us can doubt love. I've been through enough myself to doubt it, but I choose not to. I believe that there is someone for everyone - just have to allow yourself open to allow others in.

In the last few hours it came to me that if I can't Change my situation (back to what it was), then I have to change how i view my situation. I don't like being alone though.

@ElPhonse But you can slowly get to know some new people and then go from there. Maybe you won't feel too alone.

@JerseyGal all I ask for is a compassionate person to talk to for now. Someone who can listen and see the good in me. There used to be so much more in me. I don't want to remain shut down.

@JerseyGal can you share how you got into "The same boat" too ? And how you are handling the difficult moments ?

Just allow people to know you, and I'm sure they'll see the good in you.
I don't want to get into what happened in my past or the difficult moments, etc on posts. I don't like putting too much personal info for everyone to read.
If need be, I discuss personally with someone I've come to know more.

Ok