When did you realize

For me, I started liking guys the same time I started liking girls. But it's actually pretty common to be straight and then later on in life, becoming bi. Sexuality and gender are fluid. The same way you can develop a kink that you never had before, or get turned on by a body part you previously didn't find sexual, you can also go from liking one gender to two or more.

I experimented long ago with a friend my age at the time. We were young enough not to associate social norms of it being wrong. I wasn’t sure if I liked it or not but it was interesting, unfortunately he moved away. I had some more experiences but never really considered myself bi until I was in my early 50s.

Maybe it's slow, then again, I assume, like me, the way you feel attracted to women is not the same way you feel attracted to men. I did not realise until I was 19-20 that the way I enjoyed looking at women and their company was more than just normal sisterhood.

I didn't start exploring my bi feelings til i was in my 30s. I wasn't even sure i wanted too. But i had a supportive who was with me the whole way.

We enjoyed an adventurous sec life and she thought it was a hot idea.

I was actually 13 when I was suddenly confronted with that fact. It was totally unexpected but my mind was in turmoil after that and it had me realize that there is more to life than just boys. My life took such an unexpected turn but I do not regret anything...

I didn’t realize until I was 54 years old. Been a struggle and now trying to figure out if I express it or not has been even harder

I think early 20s for me. But all these things can flow and change over a lifetime.

middle school, i think around 13/14
you’re never too late to being true to yourself🫶🏻

I can't remember a time when I didn't know I was bi. I had a girlfriend before I had a boyfriend

I've known since I had an understanding of what that word meant.

I found the same sex idea was intriguing and interesting as sexual turn on but never admitted it and excepted who I was sexually for along time, around 20

I was in my late 30s when I accepted that I am gay

took me until I was 30

I always found both genders attractive.

Started noticing during my preteens, became sure of it around 15.

Never. I, unfortunately, am sexually attracted to men only.

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