confused about my sexuality pls help me out

im confused of who i am i really dont know if im bisexual or straight???

sometimes im attracted to girls but i prefer a men

like its so confusing like 3years ago i like a girl and then i rejected her personal reason and few years past now
i still get attracted to girls but not really like i like them and sometimes i get jealous to other girls i see

or im just fantasizing myself being bisexual and falling inlove to girls
sometimes i think that girls are more better than guys

but yea i still prefer men,

its killing me right now when someone ask me whats my sexuality i would answer im straight because i have only been liking more guys than girls😭😭😭

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JestAJester · 31-35, M

How about this? Stop thinking so hard about it. Stop trying so hard to label yourself or trying to fit yourself inside of a box. You like what you like and thats it. No one actually cares about your sexuality except the people interested in you.

Iloveyoubaes · 16-17, F

Thats so real and i decided to just stop trying to label myself and if people ask i just tell them im queer of some sort. I know that isnt the solution for everyone but thats what helped me when i was having a sexuality crisi. 🫶🏻

SJones48 · 41-45, M

Take your time on this. You’re still young and have plenty of time to figure it out

in10RjFox · M

Your physical sexuality is determined by others. So first check who your body attracts.

And your mental sexuality is determined by who you are attracted to and want to play with.

You may like someone but that someone may not like you and vice versa.

So only after a match, you can determine who you are.

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

Take it as you go. Don't push the issue.

If someone comes along take it. If they don't understand leave them.

There's over 8.1 billion people in this world and still growing. You're not going to exhaust the possibilities. Definitely not at your age.

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

Ignore labels and just be yourself. Do what you want to do.

ImperialAerosolKidFromEP · 46-50, M

One bit of advice I can give you is something that applies to a lot of things: when everyone around you tells you something is a certain way, consider it might be wrong. When it comes to issues of sexuality, that goes double

basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M

Why label yourself?
Sexuality is a spectrum.
You're still young, you have plenty of time to figure this out.

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