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My gender and sexuality

So firstly, about my gender identity: I'm gender non-conforming, meaning while I feel like a cis man I don't always fulfill society's expectations of what a man should be/act like, and it's always been that way for me. I used to often be called a girl by other boys so my whole life I've always gotten along better with girls and only in recent years I've made a considerable number of male friends.
Now, my sexuality is more complicated. A lot more, actually. If I HAD to label it, as of now I'd say I'm homoflexible and panromantic, meaning I'm almost exclusively sexually attracted to men, but MIGHT be able to have romantic relationships with non-men too. I rarely experience sexual attraction to women and other non-men, and when I do it's really just a fantasy.
I really don't see myself being intimate irl with anyone but men which is why I tend to think of myself as just gay, but before I confuse people with a more complicated, yet more accurate label like homoflexible panromantic I'd rather just say I'm queer.
Funlov · M
We don’t care or need to no about yours or really any ones sex preference we really don’t care not trying to be rude if you like sucking cock keep it to yourself really no one gives a shit
Emosaur · 22-25, M
@Funlov Apparently you give a shit considering you felt the need to comment.
Also ffs, go to school and learn how to write, I feel like I'm having a stroke every time I read your comments.
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
That explains a lot
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
@LordShadowfire I don't recall any calling him Bobby but OK
LordShadowfire · 46-50, MVIP
@HoraceGreenley I was giving you a nickname based on Bob Denver as Gilligan.
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
@LordShadowfire i get it
Rainandforest · 22-25, F
So.. you have dick or vag?
Emosaur · 22-25, M
@Rainandforest Wanna see?
LordShadowfire · 46-50, MVIP
@Rainandforest Dafuq? Do you always ask personal questions like that?
calicuz · 51-55, M
Wow, that's a full plate you've got there.

Unfortunately Western Society needs people to identify themselves on all levels, not just sexuality.
They want to know if one lkes boys or girls, if one is Republican or Democrat, is one Country or City, even non Black women have to identify whether they date Black men or not, and I find it all ridiculous.
Now I'm not gonna lie, at my age I'm still not ready to see two guys kissing on the street, but I do believe in letting people be who they are without repercussions.

"We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness" - Declaration of Independence
Carla · 61-69, F
Ive never considered myself anything more or less, than lesbian.
But...ive always referred to myself as queer. It suits me.
Jokekilla · 22-25, M
🤗❤️ you’re fine just the way you are man. You deserve a kiss ☺️
Emosaur · 22-25, M
@Jokekilla You're sweet 🤗❤️
Its like "Peter Piper" with your sexuality, but youre just bi. We get it.
@Emosaur Well this needs a research article "Understanding the sexuality of emosaurs in the lower cretaceous" Lol
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@Emosaur [quote][i][b]It's more complicated than that.[/b][/i][/quote]
Now you sound like me. 😁

I know we're having this *other* conversation on religion elsewhere, but I came here to your profile to try to get to know you better before continuing over there (I like to know who I'm talking to).

So... sex, sexuality, sexual expression. It's so complicated! 🤦‍♀️ I don't have issues with sexual identity. I know I'm female, cis and any other way (although people in my life have had other opinions of me because I don't dress this way or that way).

But I've been running from any sort of label on my sexuality for over ten years because none of them fit. I wish we could live in a world where people didn't need neat little labeled boxes to fit us all in. Homoromantic, homoflexible, sapio, pan, etc, etc, etc. I get it.

Anyway, I know we differ over there in that other thread, but I feel like we're kindred spirits here on this one. That's all. Be well.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@sarabee1995 that is the idea of a compassionate, empathetic society. You are entitled to whomever you are!
BohemianBoo · 18-21, M
So a femboy with the gay, yes?
Emosaur · 22-25, M
@BohemianBoo Not exactly, I actually look fairly masculine, I'd say, but personality-wise I partially align more with what society considers feminine (showing emotion and empathy, being better at more "theoretical" subjects like languages and music rather than math and science, etc.)
BohemianBoo · 18-21, M
@Emosaur So only a femboy *taps chest* in here.
FukFaceWillie · 51-55, M
I like chicks.
@FukFaceWillie with dicks
FukFaceWillie · 51-55, M
@MsSwann Con vaggine
LordShadowfire · 46-50, MVIP
Wow. I thought my stuff was complicated. Well, whatever makes you happy.

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