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easyvicky · 31-35, F
I'd have to say yes, at first. It's only revealed after some trust is gained.
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@easyvicky so true
LarrysReflections · 61-69, M
@easyvicky The hard part is sometimes finding that trust.
Damon · 26-30, M
@easyvicky I agree, with Larry as well. Don’t know if you will scare some one off too soon. So timing is a must.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Yes, no point in showing. If I were open about the ugly in me those like me might take it as encouragement to be open about it as well. And heck, I don't want people to be like the ugly side of me. There's nothing good or useful about it.
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
I don’t have a dark side or maybe I don’t know what it is. But I definitely don’t open up to people very well unless Ive known them a long time and know I can trust them. Ive trusted too many people in my life who have just fucked me over
Coffeequilt · 51-55, F
LarryZ · 56-60, M
@Coffeequilt I know - LOL
Jlhzfromep · M
I do compartmentalism different parts of my mind and only share certain parts with certain people. I think most people do this. As well
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@Jlhzfromep balancing in life living
JonathanC · 61-69, M
I do. Quite a few people would be surprised to learn of my gloryhole activities. That's strictly on a need-to-know basis.
JonathanC · 61-69, M
@JonathanC Or should I say, a knees-to-know basis.
Ksmile14 · F
Mostly. I've told a couple of people but that's it.
Ksmile14 · F
@lonelyloner I know what I am and what I've done and what's been done to me. I have to accept it.
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@Ksmile14 so similar as me
Ksmile14 · F
TwistedApe · 51-55, M
I totally do. I am a sexual deviant and have been all my life that I can remember. I have broken so many sexual laws and taboos. Many of which would have seen me in jail if I had been caught, or at least ruined my career.

Only my best friend has a hint of what I used to do and knows nothing about the chain of victims I have.

Sex is some thing that you take was my attitude.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Not if they bring it out of me.
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@Keepitsimple kool quite intelligent 👍
I do definitely self censor around some people. It is not anything particularly dark or bad but just some stuff I am into doesn't conform to social norms and I just don't want that conversation.
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@PicturesOfABetterTomorrow yes i can understand
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
I do because I am trying to get it under control.
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@MartinTheFirst good to know and it proved that your courage is much higher than many others around
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@MartinTheFirst that’s great! Eventually it will come without thinking about it
oldercanuck1 · 70-79, M
i am an open book ,,, i figure if you tell what they want to know then no secrets ,,,, with someone you enjoy being with there should be no secrets ,,,
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UpForItNow · 22-25, F
I do. I'm a career public servant, family man and generally regarded as a shrinking violet, but I'm privately the intellectual enemy of mankind.
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@UpForItNow amazing combination 👍
LarrysReflections · 61-69, M
I do conceal my dark side to those who are judgemental. I prefer to be able to be open about it and to be vulnerable with those who understand or at least won't judge me.
oldercanuck1 · 70-79, M
once i see the person i am seeing is going to go farther ,, i open and tell everything of my dark side ,, so if she decides to stay there are no secrets ,,,,
I don't try to hide my dark side at all which explains why so many people here have me blocked 🤣

lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@Disney good to know , no worry i will never block you
@lonelyloner ~hugz~ lol

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KA9ha · 31-35, M
i dont need to do so as i am too transparent ...open to queries on any aspect
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@KA9ha good for u
KA9ha · 31-35, M
@lonelyloner thank you...good you appreciate this.
KA9ha · 31-35, M
@lonelyloner wekcome
Mardrae · F
Nope. I let my dark side out in all its glory for all the world to see. 😊
LarrysReflections · 61-69, M
@Mardrae That is very admirable.
LarrysReflections · 61-69, M
@Mardrae If would be interesting to know about your dark side. 😉
Mardrae · F
@LarrysReflections not much to know… I have BPD
jacklost1983 · 36-40, M
yes. better to share only with people who will understand you and who also have dark sides
TexChik · F
Yes. When PTSD comes to town it pretty ugly . My hubby is really good at keeping me safe and secluded .
Torpedocat99 · 46-50, MVIP
I wish I didn’t need to hide my dark desires😞
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@Torpedocat99 same here but am quite helpless
Torpedocat99 · 46-50, MVIP
@lonelyloner please message me in pm’s❤️
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@Torpedocat99 thanx i will
WillaKissing · 56-60
The only thing I hide is that I am a cross dresser from those that know me in real life.
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Viper · M
I'm never sure if I can trust others, so I sometimes hide things that might be used by others to hurt me.
Dshhh · M
actually not so much. I am clearly what I am

nice pic BTW
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@Dshhh thanx glad to know , i understood your point as i knew every one is not like me
Dshhh · M
@lonelyloner it doest feel so dark,, i m just what i am
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BearDownChicago · 41-45, M
Everyday. I’m sure no one would expect the thoughts going through my head
chilloutab2 · 41-45, M
I've always had to do this... and I'm quite used to it by now.
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@chilloutab2 i know and can understand why
Depends on what you mean by dark
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@DrawntoaDistance true i mean to that which we used to hide from society and around us
jecdk · 51-55, F
We all have... Thats why we only trust some we tell
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lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@OldMan70 so true
No it is the only side I have.
Torpedocat99 · 46-50, MVIP
@AtticEscapee want to chat about it? 😘
iamelijah · 26-30, M
Some I hide, some I don't.
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@iamelijah so you are balancing in your life , it's a symbol of good mind 👍
FatherTime · 61-69, M
yes of course I do
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@FatherTime good 2 know
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
yes i do from family and friends
snofan · M
Yes. Most know nothing of it.
I used to but i told a family once because i wanted to be honest and then she discriminated against me.. but thats life i guess.. I'm no longer that way.. i thought about telling one the lady's daughters to tell her I'm not like that anymore.. but i don't want to bother them with my nonsense.. sigh 😳
That's why I'm here
Viper · M
It depends .. I don't want to bother people, respect people that don't care.

And I don't want to bring others down...

But if they seem to care, want to know and I think I can handle it, then I'll be willing to share with them.
daddybloke · 46-50, M
most of my dark side will only be shared with people i have built trust with usually we have to have something in common not for general public
I dont think i have a dark side but there is a side to my life i dont want others to know about.
firefall · 61-69, M
Well, I dont think of it as a dark side, but others may

What do you consider your dark aspects ?
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
I don't have what I would call a dark side. I have nothing to hide from my loved ones.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I don’t hide that side of somebody brings it out of me whether it’s a good dark or bad dark.
Dshhh · M
i know others would say it was dark.. but I dont feel bad about these things
daddybloke · 46-50, M
my dark secret locker just keeps growing and growing worsens with age i think ?
Larksky · M
I don't have dark side, entire me is dark from inside
greymatter61 · 56-60, M
I have a public self and a private self, NEVER should the two meet.
Death & destruction

World domination

Grrr anger

 
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