You know when you share a more vulnerable detail about yourself and it attracts people in your pms?

I once saw a profile of a younger woman and on her bio, it said not to message her if you are a guy over thirty because she had bad experiences.

I messaged her.

Her Avi was a character from one of my favourite Youtube channels. It's an obscure reference and I couldn't resist. I just couldn't fight the urge to message her and talk about politics. 😜

The convo went well as a basic normal human interaction and I made no attempt to seduce a woman half my age who lives on a different continent. The need to do so never occurred. Though I completely get that there are a lot of predators here.

There are also 'white knights' Older guys who have a desire to protect a younger woman but there is also an implied sexual element to their interest, whether they admit to it or not.

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i've seen PMS threads filled with weird-ass advice from only middle-aged men. how do they even care, lol

I hate that. I also hate when people,regardless of their gender ,try to play saviour to pet their own ego and idea of themselves

I've even had some older males trying to find a weakness, like telling me how I seem lonely, melancholic, misunderstood etc. Meanwhile that's never been the case and it's so funny. But if someone is really in a vulnerable state, it's easy to make them think that they have nobody else and they're there for them and so they have to do their "favours".

Seriously it's like fucking sharks in chummed water.

Yeah tidal wave of older guys with one word comments of 'support' is actually rather sickening.

If I'm posting about something vulnerable it's coz I need to vent and get it out of my head. If it's sexual then I just want to have light hearted fun. Never expose a genuine weakness online, it'll be a bloodbath

Ive always been pretty upfront about wanting to bone you. At least i have that going for me.

Yes some think they can use it to their advantage best to stay guarded

Allow me to sweepeth you off your feet for exposing information about yourself, darling

I shall be thine knight in glimmering, scintillating armor or pure silver steel

Sometimes I will pm but it's very rare and I have to like the person in the first place. The chances of me coming with anything sexual are slim to none tbh. I get what you're saying though. Some people deliberately look for vulnerability.

Including your social security number and mother's maiden name is a big plus

Getting too many unwanted pms from old dudes? LET ME PM YOU ABOUT THIS PROBLEM

Its fair enough to be guarded like this.

You can't blame a guy for trying.
I hope you're letting them down easy.

Y E P

I can be your knight 🦾🤖

Due to the lack of capitalization, I first read your title as "attracts people in your PMS".

I appreciate good advice but I don’t appreciate when men think something is owed for that advice either.