You know when you share a more vulnerable detail about yourself and it attracts people in your pms?

I'm usually not trusting of that unless it's a woman. (well, a woman I'm familiar with) Why? No ulterior motives.

The older men on here swarm at the opportunity to talk about it because they think it's a weakness.
Idk about you but mine aren't a weakness. If I share something publicly, I'm just showing you more pieces to my picture because I want to.

You might even have good intentions but if we've never interacted or only engage briefly, I don't really care about your intentions.

Im not a damsel in distress and you sure as hell aren't my knight. Boo-bye

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Burnley123 · 41-45, M

I once saw a profile of a younger woman and on her bio, it said not to message her if you are a guy over thirty because she had bad experiences.

I messaged her.

Her Avi was a character from one of my favourite Youtube channels. It's an obscure reference and I couldn't resist. I just couldn't fight the urge to message her and talk about politics. 😜

The convo went well as a basic normal human interaction and I made no attempt to seduce a woman half my age who lives on a different continent. The need to do so never occurred. Though I completely get that there are a lot of predators here.

There are also 'white knights' Older guys who have a desire to protect a younger woman but there is also an implied sexual element to their interest, whether they admit to it or not.