You know when you share a more vulnerable detail about yourself and it attracts people in your pms?

I'm usually not trusting of that unless it's a woman. (well, a woman I'm familiar with) Why? No ulterior motives.

The older men on here swarm at the opportunity to talk about it because they think it's a weakness.
Idk about you but mine aren't a weakness. If I share something publicly, I'm just showing you more pieces to my picture because I want to.

You might even have good intentions but if we've never interacted or only engage briefly, I don't really care about your intentions.

Im not a damsel in distress and you sure as hell aren't my knight. Boo-bye

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SW-User

Sometimes I will pm but it's very rare and I have to like the person in the first place. The chances of me coming with anything sexual are slim to none tbh. I get what you're saying though. Some people deliberately look for vulnerability.

HijabaDabbaDoo · F

@SW-User nothing wrong with reaching out to a friend or sometimes even strangers but if there's been no prior engagement that sets the tone for what to expect, they're usually just seeking out someone to manipulate. That's why you have so many on here who bond because they have similar traumas. It's not healthy.