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So many men here

Pay attention to a fake woman account by the 100's, but here I am, an actual, honest to goodness woman who isn't trying to get one over on others, and it's all 🦗🦗🦗

Then they complain they got catfished and scammed.

🤷‍♀

I don't get it.

Mom was wrong.

A beautiful personality doesn't mean more than a sex pot.
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lisasweety · F
personality IS important & it is what maintain relationships but appearance is the ticket, kinda like the resume 4 ur job interview... learned this the hard way in life 💀💀💀 otherwise I won't be spending most my free time after homework taking care of my health & looks lol 😂😂😂
Northwest · M
I don't get it.

It's not that complicated. This is the Internet, so to some people, it's party time.

But, to you, this should also be an easy filter: if someone interests you, and they're high fiving the catfish, then block, or move on.
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@Northwest I wasn't trying to start a debate lol Sorry. Just felt what you said came off as bad. I don't even think that you believe the internet is for treating people like objects just that your statement gives allowance to that.

Either way, sorry my response upset you. Your statement was pretty succinct and glib.
Northwest · M
@FoxyGoddess

sorry my response upset you.

Interesting. I asked ChatGPT what it thought of the exchange:

Comment 1:

```
So many men here
Pay attention to a fake woman account by the 100's, but here I am, an actual, honest to goodness woman who isn't trying to get one over on others, and it's all 🦗🦗🦗

Then they complain they got catfished and scammed.

🤷‍♀

I don't get it.

Mom was wrong.

A beautiful personality doesn't mean more than a sex pot.
```

Comment 2:

```
It's not that complicated. This is the Internet, so to some people, it's party time.

But, to you, this should also be an easy filter: if someone interests you, and they're high fiving the catfish, then block, or move on.
```

Comment 3:

```
This sounds like allowing people to treat others like entertainment venues instead of actual people.

The "boys will be boys" excuse to objectify others for their own gratification.

And sure, the catfish and scammers are successful because people have this mentality, but that doesn't make any of it okay.

I can't glibly excuse dehumanization like that.
```

Do you think any of these posts express anger?

And here's what ChatGPT said:


Yes, I believe at least one of the posts expresses a form of anger.

Here is a breakdown by comment:

Comment 1: This post expresses strong frustration and disappointment. The author is exasperated (as shown by the 🦗🦗🦗 and 🤷‍♀ emojis) that their "beautiful personality" is overlooked. While frustration is closely related to anger, the primary tone here feels more like cynicism and disillusionment.

Comment 2: This post does not appear to express anger. It reads as a calm, pragmatic, and somewhat detached piece of advice.

Comment 3: This post expresses the clearest anger, specifically indignation. The author is angered by the previous comment's perspective, which they interpret as "glibly excusing dehumanization" and objectification. Phrases like "I can't glibly excuse" and the use of strong terms like "dehumanization" show a strong, morally-driven anger at a perceived injustice.
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@Northwest Okay.

I'm not sure why ChatGPT needed to be brought into it, but sure.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
It’s the fake pictures of pretty girls that draw them in, even if they know they’re a catfish, they’re probably hoping for more pictures for their collection.

I value personality over anything, especially here. Guess everyone’s here for their own reasons.
KiwiDan · 31-35, M
🤗 I don't really know you all that well, but you seem pretty cool. You're a bit old for me, but that's kind of what I want in a woman.

Obviously this comment isn't going anywhere so I'll stop.
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@KiwiDan Tbf, I do tend to lean towards younger men, however. I'm reaching that place in my life where i need emotional and physical stability. Not that younger people don't have that, but it isn't always consistent
Chiefjustice · 46-50, M
I know, it is unbelievable!!

It drives me crazy so men on here, specially above 60 go crazy every time a fake account posts a female semi nude or nude picture. I have written about this issue before.

There are handful of us who are actually looking into the account holder. Ugh..
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@Chiefjustice
specially above 60 go crazy

I noticed that too. I also wonder how many of them are married, because that seems to be the metric.
kittencat · 41-45, F
Many people just want cheap thrills online. I wouldn't take it personally if you want quality.
peterlee · M
I’ve come across a few. Just look at their early posts.

But the scammers are there too. Cleaver ones. A red flag if they bring up lack of money. Never respond to that. There is always a food bank nearby.
4thdimensiondream · 61-69, M
I think it comes down to what you’re looking for if you joined the site. It’s a different world today with internet and instant connection possible.
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
Not so fast my friend. Your mom was right, don’t judge all of us the same.
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@SageWanderer for real!
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
I'm sorry to hear that! 😕
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@novaguy2u It is what it is. Those guys all sniffing around the bait obviously wouldn't be able to keep me or sustain a relationship with me, so at least I know those men are out of the running.
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Magenta · F
And the obsession with body parts as if it is the total sum of the one dimensional brain. It's all boring af.
@Magenta omf ikr theyre 60 y/o men acting like my little nephew whos 7
Magenta · F
@TryingtoLava Yikes. I could do a very long commentary, but I withhold myself.
I think I've been here too long...
Magenta · F
@TryingtoLava 🩷🌷
BillyMack · 46-50, M
Maybe the dudes that don’t have a life or are actual simps pay attention to those profiles. It’s so easy to see the fakeness. But getting scammed and catfished is another level of unrealistic expectations. It’s sad.
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@BillyMack in general
BillyMack · 46-50, M
@FoxyGoddess men are attracted to more than looks too.
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@BillyMack I'm sure they are, tbh, but they act with their penises first.
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Mom lived before the world of internet and AI took over.
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
I think every time a new user signs up there should be an automated system that goes out and reverse image searches all of your images, and slaps the results on your profile. Maybe it would be part of a broader Bullsh*t Score or such.

Ideally the automated system would also reject all AI-generated image uploads or hotlinking. If you can't prioritize the environment above your own personal vanity on your own, perhaps the system could assist you, so you'll always remember after the first attempt that there's no reason for you waste any subsequent electricity or water that is needed by every AI image generation prompt, and you won't unwittingly upload / link the same created upstream by others and disseminated on Pinterest, et al.

That obviously will never happen on SW, with the founder being all in on AI and crypto. Values are out the window here, which is ironic given how the founder professes to love Christianity on another website ... I dont think raping the environment or the grossness of the wife-swapping image feed and such is compatible with evangelizing lol.
FoolishLuna · 56-60, F
Beauty fades a beautiful mind is timeless🙏
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FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@JimboSaturn hope springs eternal, I guess.
A beautiful personality is better than sex
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@FoxyGoddess I'm sure you're being hard on yourself. We can be our own worst critics sometimes. For what it's worth, I think you have a beautiful personality and that shows up before even having to know what you look like
lisasweety · F
@FoxyGoddess true u shouldn't have 2 peacock but unfortunately ull then be appealing 2 a very small niche😕😕😕, it's like having a bad resume & asking 4 a job true u may get some1 like how u can get a job without graduating highschool, but what r the odds?😕😕😕 & even then how good would the job be? Food 4 thought rly🤔🤔🤔
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@demthebrakes Na. Just an observation on how easy it is to con men and how disappointing it is for women like me
Punxi · F
<------- real.
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@Strictmichael75

 
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