This site is whack
I need people to talk to. Why is it people only talk through comments? I’m about to delete this. You try to have a conversation with someone and it’s blocked immediately!
26-30, M
@GnomeyGee I always start my conversations with a kiss on the mouth. This is very normal.
You talk through comments to get to know people. Takes time and patience. What kind of conversations are you attempting that get you blocked immediately? People are out here talking to each other 24/7. Maybe your expectations and what the site offers just aren’t a good match.
Ballplayer28 · 26-30, M
@OlderSometimesWiser thank you for your comment. I don’t think it’s bad I just cut the small talk maybe that’s where I mess up.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
On this site, people tend to be suspicious of private messages out of the blue from people they do not know.
And when we do receive such a message, we check the person's profile. Can't you understand that some of your post topics would be the explanation for why some people block you? (Women have to deal with all kinds of come-ons here, and they get sick of it.)
The primary form of conversation here , for many of us, is in public.
And I don't think that is a negative thing at all.
And when we do receive such a message, we check the person's profile. Can't you understand that some of your post topics would be the explanation for why some people block you? (Women have to deal with all kinds of come-ons here, and they get sick of it.)
The primary form of conversation here , for many of us, is in public.
And I don't think that is a negative thing at all.
@DrWatson k I'm going to send you a private message then lol
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
They don’t only talk through comments though. There’s probably more who talk behind the scenes than those who primarily talk publicly. But there’s an art to carry the private chats successfully, especially if there’s been little to no exchange beforehand. Many people are very selective with their time and energy here because we have the luxury of being able to invest in exchanges that’ll contribute something to our day-to-day. There’s a lovely meshing there.
While I commend you on being forthright about your intentions here through post after post, that same honesty can seriously limit how well you get along here because you’ve cut to the chase…and a lot of members here are all about that chase and getting to the core. You’ve made it too easy. But I do know that there’s an audience for you. You just have to find them or wait patiently until they find you. Good luck either way, man.
While I commend you on being forthright about your intentions here through post after post, that same honesty can seriously limit how well you get along here because you’ve cut to the chase…and a lot of members here are all about that chase and getting to the core. You’ve made it too easy. But I do know that there’s an audience for you. You just have to find them or wait patiently until they find you. Good luck either way, man.
Ballplayer28 · 26-30, M
@PerfectionOfTheHeart how do I make it where they want to chase. I don’t get hardly anyone to even entertain the idea of private messages
factanonverba · 56-60, M
@meJess I have been on here well over a year and a half now and I still feel like I'm on the outside looking in.
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HoeBag · 46-50, F
@factanonverba I been here four years and still feel that way.
Ballplayer28 · 26-30, M
@Selah how are you
SW-User
@Juvia she sounds hefty
laurieluvsit · 31-35, F
You have to find members with similar interests is all.
If you like playing ball as your user name suggests then find some sports enthusiasts on here to chat with.
There are many good members on here but, of course, there are always bad ones as well.
The ones that would block you are the ones that you don't want to have a conversation with anyway.
Good luck!
If you like playing ball as your user name suggests then find some sports enthusiasts on here to chat with.
There are many good members on here but, of course, there are always bad ones as well.
The ones that would block you are the ones that you don't want to have a conversation with anyway.
Good luck!
factanonverba · 56-60, M
Awesome observation. I thought I was the only one who noticed this. Question : can you recommend three other sites similar to this one? Just asking.
twiigss · M
@factanonverba reddit and quora are 2 sites I can think of at least
Different · 31-35, M
Lol i just block those who ignore me thats how its been for me, if u ignore my DM i block & they end up crying about me blocking them in post haha tf its so weird here sometimes. But i know a few cool ppls i fw and talk to alot and converse back with me.
You just gotta find those ppl & block.the rest of the weirdos it works for me. Some people are just soically inept in the real world and online, nothing you can do about that lol
You just gotta find those ppl & block.the rest of the weirdos it works for me. Some people are just soically inept in the real world and online, nothing you can do about that lol
Different · 31-35, M
@HoeBag so with VIP u can see who views ur profile, and u can see who sees ur msgs or not and hasnt responded or ignored you. I usually dont care but if i message you something like maybe personal after we conversed on the comment section obv bot sexual lol but like something i dont wanna put out on the comment section for all to see cause i have weird stalkers here that are like my personal fan page i guess ahaha
But then u ignore me after i share that with u then im just gonna block lol thats my reason behind it. Idk why that response would affect ppl, who just ignore i could see if i said some off the wall ish or sent unsolicited pics haha but a normal convo and ignored = block to me. Haha but thank u for saying nice things about me :)
But then u ignore me after i share that with u then im just gonna block lol thats my reason behind it. Idk why that response would affect ppl, who just ignore i could see if i said some off the wall ish or sent unsolicited pics haha but a normal convo and ignored = block to me. Haha but thank u for saying nice things about me :)
HoeBag · 46-50, F
@Different I typically do not go VIP on any site because one - it costs money.
But also, it just seems like it would open up more problems.
Plus, I am pretty much NOoOoOobody on here anyways.
Blocking, in my opinion, is mostly pointless because then people just stalk each other on their alts.
But also, it just seems like it would open up more problems.
Plus, I am pretty much NOoOoOobody on here anyways.
Blocking, in my opinion, is mostly pointless because then people just stalk each other on their alts.
Different · 31-35, M
@HoeBag they can stalk if they . Act weird af, stalk me or ignore me just do soically inept things ppl dont do irl imma just block im not gonna deal with grown people who are socially celibate and lived their lifes online and dont know how to comminicate hahaa just gonna block.
I just block again if they come back on alts to bother me hahaa and i really just be on here chilling so if u get blocked by me u doing some weirdo stuff hahahaha
I just block again if they come back on alts to bother me hahaa and i really just be on here chilling so if u get blocked by me u doing some weirdo stuff hahahaha
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RachelLia2003 · 22-25, F
@Pretzel here is some loquat to cheer you up
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@RachelLia2003 this is the most depressed cat I have ever seen in my life
jehova · 36-40, M
Strange it is more of a discussion forum format.
FlowersInHerHair · F
This isn’t an instant gratification site. The premise is to interact with others via posts and comments. Friendships and connections have to be developed before many are comfortable with 1:1 messages.
Let’s just be honest here…you don’t grab someone in a bar and start screwing them. You have to at least buy them a drink or two and say hello.
Let’s just be honest here…you don’t grab someone in a bar and start screwing them. You have to at least buy them a drink or two and say hello.
SomeMichGuy · M
Start a post where you invite ppl to DM you about <whatever>...
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This is the way
@SW-User this isn't Grogu
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Ballplayer28 · 26-30, M
@greensnacks yes I do
greensnacks · F
@Ballplayer28 and how's that working out for you?
Ballplayer28 · 26-30, M
@greensnacks well if you really want to know lol I got a buttplug training kit and a plastic cock cage
3Dogmatic · 46-50
I believe the term is Wack…
SatyrService · M
there are a lot of aSS HAts here,,
but there are decent meaningful people
comments ARE a god place to start conversations,,
request for Private communication, are often filtered by things like sex, age etc.
so many persons will not even KNOW you reached out.
I often ask about private chat IN a comment thread.
follow those whose comments and POSTS you like
posts are a good way to learnd about folks here
but there are decent meaningful people
comments ARE a god place to start conversations,,
request for Private communication, are often filtered by things like sex, age etc.
so many persons will not even KNOW you reached out.
I often ask about private chat IN a comment thread.
follow those whose comments and POSTS you like
posts are a good way to learnd about folks here
@SatyrService *puts on my ass hat*
SatyrService · M
@goneNow6565 love it
You try to have a conversation with someone and it’s blocked immediately!
StygianKohlrabi · M
you never tried talking to me... not that I'm requesting
because pming is lame af
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
Your are right, this site is for whacky people lol
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
Ballplayer28 · 26-30, M
@SkeetSkeet yeah I’m in law enforcement as I know unsolicited penis pics is a crime so I definitely don’t do that!
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
You gotta also love the people that block you for not replying quick enough 😂🙃