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AnOldFriend · 61-69, M
I haven't had anyone be rude to me yet.

I was kind of rude a couple nights ago because I was drunk which is actually no excuse, but the two people I wasn't civil to was polite to me and the next day I tried to be a better person because of their behavior toward me.

I was impressed and grateful they didn't block me.

SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
Hmm so you are responsible for curating your own block list and I recommend you start blocking people who harass and abuse you.

If said abuse and harassment against you is unlawful or if it is a popular cause you can expect support from the admins and user base here.

Looking at your post history, it seems you are a Christian and promoting your faith and challenging others on theirs.

You can expect push back, challenges and outright hostility to that. Keep that in mind as you proceed.
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
@TheWildEcho Ugh, of course not. 🙄

I'm offering advice and guidance to your "friend" since he is having a hard time here right now.
TheWildEcho · 61-69, M
@SumKindaMunster ok thanks
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
@TheWildEcho You're welcome, don't let people get to you here.
We do have a block feature. It’s very handy. That feature alone takes care of the problem.
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
How long did you wait? I reported someone and they did act but it took weeks. I don't think SW is a big organization.
TheWildEcho · 61-69, M
@ninalanyon glad they acted!
cuhraiZ · 46-50, F
I'm thinking it's because they know that we're adults and as adults we don't have to put up with/react to it.
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
Because they'd lose at least half the people here if they acted?
TheWildEcho · 61-69, M
@ChipmunkErnie but people are leaving because they don't act!!
@ChipmunkErnie I agree…
FreestyleArt · 36-40, M
They do. It just takes a while
4meAndyou · F
I always receive a follow-up report if and when I report abuse. Sometimes it's months later...but it's really not much of an issue for me because I block abusive people almost immediately.
Miram · 31-35, F
This thread is too vague. It would be better if you pointed directly to this abuse. Context is everything.
Bushmanoz · 61-69, M
What was the abusive behaviour? If its just a few harsh words in an argument then that's going to happen from time to time.
eyeno · M
https://similarworlds.com/christianity/christian/3571340-Christian-better-to-be-Mute-Not-all-Statements
SW-User
To be honest, I think most of the bullies and abusers are bots, so you will get a lot of use out of the block feature. Just my opinion, of course
I think it all relates to choice and perspective.

What one may see as abuse, another may laugh off.
What one may see as horrible words, anither may see as a sad angry person .

Part of the resson im here is to learn to cope and deal with people like this .

Some users are just awful. They get off on arguing, and upsetting people .

One has to look at the upside if this situation: you can block them.

In RL , we can't expect someone to step in and fix everything for us. Same here .
We are all grown ups.

I know that sounds harsh. But ive had people here make me cry , make me angry .....but each one also made me stronger , better prepared for the next one .

I think its unrealistic to think you wont get bullied online , its a responsibility free playground for people like that.

Its sad she wants to leave , and that admin hasnt done anything, but i supoose it depends upon their perspective on this .
As i know there have been users who complained that having their posts ignored by others was a form of bullying ....admin see a lot . Admin are used to dealing with it, maybe they didnt deem it bad enough ? I dunno .

Its sad it happens, buts its just online life .....meanies are everywhere , you can't avoid them all.🤷‍♀️😔
It's only abuse when certain types do it
SW-User
Block, ignore or mute and to make itt fun, mock them😅
TheWildEcho · 61-69, M
@SW-User that's easier said than done, a friend of mine on here is leaving because of the abuse she received.
SW-User
@TheWildEcho though really you need to drown out the noise and not let what people say on here get under your /their skin, what other people say about you is none of your business and its a reflection of those peoples own issues

When I say you, I don't mean 'you' I mean whomever is having the issues
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I have had a few harass me. If they get enough reports they will be banned
@iamonfire696 That’s what it’s really all about… the most popular cause they want to keep the members they have…

 
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