Top | Newest First | Oldest First
Wonderful girl and troubled boy grew to be friends and fell in love. She changed his mind, gave him reason to believe in himself. He believed in her, believed in them.
When she threw him out of her life, something broke. He has never completely healed.
He still loves her. Some things just never go away.
When she threw him out of her life, something broke. He has never completely healed.
He still loves her. Some things just never go away.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
My daughter. It was the first time I felt I couldn’t live without them and would do anything for them.
FreeSpirit1 · F
My 6th grade teacher. He said it would never work out, with him being 30 and married and me being 11. 🤣
WhateverWorks · 36-40
The relationship itself was cliché I think. Passionate artist pining for connection meets passionate, but aloof, emotionally unavailable musician. I had an abusive boyfriend at the time, but I was very young, he was my first boyfriend, and I was scared to leave him. I didn’t leave my boyfriend ‘for Jay’, but that new, happier, not-abusive dynamic did give me the courage to kick the abuser out and find my own footing in the world. As for Jay, from the moment we started talking I was so madly drawn to him that it was compelling. From an outside perspective, I was an idiot chasing around a player, but something intuitively knew that wasn’t the way of it. Just because he wasn’t a player though doesn’t mean what we had going on was healthy by any stretch of the imagination. We would spend some time together, he’d feel triggered by the intimacy then disappear for a month or three months then reappear and I’d drop everything to spend even a little time with him again. This went on for years. It seems like every time we reconnected he would get sexier. 🤣 First he was a drummer, then he got really good on the guitar, then he got the hang of the piano, then he became the lead singer in a band that was working on a contract. Later he turned out to be an amazing father and solid husband then he got a bachelors in philosophy. That’s the thing of it. Jay and I didn’t work out for a lot of logistical and Life phase reasons, but we still catch up every few years. It’s always like no time has passed. I think it’s funny that almost 20 years later it’s confirmed somehow my younger self was right about him, Who I thought he was and how he would turn out to be and that I wasn’t delusional even though it definitely looked like it at the time 🤣
saragoodtimes · F
Neiman. Mom took me to meet him when I was young. he served me the most delightful lunch, gave me a massage and skin care and carried our packages out to the car when we were done. I'll always be in love with him
View 12 more replies »
saragoodtimes · F
@Degbeme I'm just a simple girl. easy to please
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@saragoodtimes Until it comes to shopping? 🤔
saragoodtimes · F
@Degbeme I know what I like and buy things that meet my needs
SW-User
A Russian ex, it didn't have a happy ending but had some nice moments at least.
This comment is hidden.
Show Comment
SW-User
@Darksideinthenight2 not at all, I don't hurt for him at all.. 😁 It's good to know that.
This comment is hidden.
Show Comment
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
I loved a boy in highschool. I’d say he was my first love. We met in drivers Ed class. It was off and on for a year or so. He doesn’t know it, but we actually live fairly close to each other now. I checked him out on Facebook and he looks like Charles Manson now
SW-User
@Jenny1234 Hmm! Handsome fella
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@SW-User he certainly was handsome in highschool
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
Laura. As two tearful 7 year olds we made friends and comforted each other through our first night in boarding school. We shared rooms until we left school 11 years later. 6 years ago we were married 💖💖💖
Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F
First love was also the first on who shattered my heart.
SW-User
@Pinkstarburst why it has to be like that.. We become vulnerable I guess.
Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F
@SW-User Blind and vulnerable.
SW-User
@Pinkstarburst yes... So so blind.
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
The father of my daughter who turned out to be a knob who couldnt handle any type of responsibility. The End
Canuckle · 51-55, M
I’m sitting in this comfy leather chair when she entered the room for orientation. He long platinum blonde hair flowing over the shoulders of her black leather jacket. She glanced at me and I smiled back into her gorgeous green eyes. She sat a across in the matching love seat. Her petite figure and her stylishly torn tight fitting denims were so distracting. I had to meet this angel of the universe. We struck up a brief conversation, but it wasn’t until our second encounter that we started to converse.
A weekend retreat brought us closer, the late dance, the last song…I finally asked her and she accepted. Our first was a slow beautiful acoustic melody. We had a connection.
Our first date was spent over consuming coffee at a 24 hour coffee bar. We spent 8 hours chatting about life, past misfortunes, and us. By the end of the night our hands clasped across the table and our eyes bound to each other’s. She was my first love.
A weekend retreat brought us closer, the late dance, the last song…I finally asked her and she accepted. Our first was a slow beautiful acoustic melody. We had a connection.
Our first date was spent over consuming coffee at a 24 hour coffee bar. We spent 8 hours chatting about life, past misfortunes, and us. By the end of the night our hands clasped across the table and our eyes bound to each other’s. She was my first love.
LadyJ · F
The local idiot 😏
saragoodtimes · F
@LadyJ and now SW called and wants him back
LadyJ · F
@saragoodtimes and they can have him back with pleasure 😂🤣
TurtlePink · 22-25, F
I don’t wanna go there 😔
SW-User
Playing duck duck goose in 1st grade. Have been in love with her ever since, over 50 years now..
Jj2k00 · F
He was my partner for a college group project back in March. We’ve been together since then.
exexec · 61-69, C
I was "in like" with several girls before I was 15, but the one I first loved was the one who became my wife. We met when I was 15 and she was 14, started dating when both of us were 15, and married when we were 22. She dated lots of guys in college, but never let them come between us. I only dated her, except for a few movies with friends from high school. I can't define the moment it became true love, but it was early in our relationship.
SW-User
His name was Tim. He was two years older than me. We went to different HS. Started dating him when I was 16. We moved in together when I was eighteen. Broke up when I was 19 but took me like 10 years no joke to get over it. I thought he was going to be the man I was going to marry. We had an on and off thing for a few years until I started dating my ex-husband. I loved him very much but he was bad news and as far as I hear he still is.
This comment is hidden.
Show Comment
Lilymoon · F
It was unrequited and totally miserable. 😬
This comment is hidden.
Show Comment
solitaire · 41-45, F
My college mate, who is now a proud and arrogant professor in a renowned college. Karma - after he dumped me, he has had two more love failures!!
SW-User
A girl from my physics batch. I sneezed on her face when we were trying to kiss for the first time. ☹️
SW-User
@SW-User
ZashaKitty · 26-30, F
my first Girlfriend I would consider my first real love. Her name was Belinda and she was amazing
His name is Leo. I last heard he was in South Africa. We met in Portugal, but were at the same university. He was a year ahead of me. He wanted to travel, I wanted to finish my degree. We got engaged, then broke up.
SW-User
2 girls in my neighbourhood when I was about 11 years old. Yeah I was player back then
SW-User
not love but my senior who taught me stuff, he is an Ivy League researcher now
Pretzel · 61-69, M
there were a couple of first -
first puppy love
and first almost adult love
first puppy love
and first almost adult love
SW-User
She was a tomboy , we played on the same baseball ⚾️ team when we were 12 😊
Ravens80 · 46-50, F
High school boyfriend we were together 2.5 years!
RedBaron · M
Someone you don't know.
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
The one who got away.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
A boyfriend when I was 15. He still messages me and said he shouldn’t have let me get away.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@iamonfire696 I love that. What do you say to him?
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Jenny1234 I tell him to go away 🤣. He’s married and unhappy but this has been going on for 20 years plus now.
Krieg34645 · 31-35, M
SW-User
This comment is hidden.
Show Comment