Has any 'toxic' relationship impact your self esteem in a self destructive way?

My recent ex partner fucked my self esteem and mental health to the point where I would of killed myself if I didn’t leave her.

Yes. My mother was, apparently, threatened by me. It was so bad, all I could think of when I was a senior in high school was that I would marry the first man who asked me, just to get away from her. That turned out to be a very, very bad idea.

Hell yeah!
I felt I didnt deserve to be treated with respect and dignity. It was a destructive time.

Yep. I was being cheated by then bf and yet he talked behind me to his friends calling me slut and needy. I remember him telling me no one can stand me and if I ever have a relationship, it won't last long and I will always be chubby girl no matter how much I work out because I have a high salaried desk job. I believed him for a long time undermining my self esteem. I am glad I broke up with him.

I've written about it at length in my stories that I don't want to rehash here, but the answer is yes. My parents picked me apart so much that I've never been able to have a healthy relationship in my life. I've spent the last 12 years trying to undo their damage, but it's done little good

Well, in my case it was a marriage with kids that lasted 14 years. My self esteem in general was impacted, but I think I bounced back, mostly thanks to people around me.
Self-destructive way? Luckily that part was never even close to happening.

Absolutely

Totally. And it can take a long time to undo the damage. I was married to a very controlling and jealous woman and I carried the fear and shame she put on me for a long time. I had to work to get out from under it.

Yes, to the point where I can't even think of getting into a relationship now.

A long time ago. Gratitude has changed my life.

Impact my self esteem? No. Good for my mental heath? NO.

Yes then but not really now. She’s an asshole and she always will be

I have been with my girl for 3+ years and my self-esteem has tanked!

It definitely took a hit. Took a while to recover.

Yes - until I had an awakening :)

Yes yes yes

I'm still trying to get over that part of my life.

You don't even want to know