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Jandersunstar · 26-30, M
People these days are hard to decipher because they are lost in their own world

Maybe lift your head up and stop looking down all the time. Your body language is not inviting. If somebody did approach you you probaly would get caught off guard and not know what to do or get over excited and make to big off a deal. You need to relax. Unfortunately being miserable is a cycle that you get stuck in and wether you want to or not you are pushing people away. You yourself are not going to want to be around somebody in the mood your in, your trying to get away from it and via other people is absolutely not the way to go about it. I know this because I'm guilty of it myself.
in10RjFox · M
Those times I guess are over. Most don't look around due to their preoccupancy with their phones. AND its no longer an etiquette since reaction often is not smooth.
coolboy86 · 36-40, M
people are in love with their phones not actual people
SW-User
It goes both ways, you know. Most people don’t just go up to someone and start talking randomly. That’s weird & creepy.
coolboy86 · 36-40, M
i need to warm up to people and then i feel comfortable talking to them in public its hard for me to just approach someone and start talking
in10RjFox · M
@SW-User most get a shock when someone does that and react quite adversely..

Belated expectations..
Brooksy · 41-45, M
Studies show that you have a look that suggests you're available. Do you carry yourself as one who is available and interested?
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Brooksy · 41-45, M
Try a glance at an interesting person, if you're truly interested. I'm sure you can muster a look
YAWN

You again ?

One track mind nobodycares
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@nobodycares Ahahahahahahaha, you can´t even get that
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ScarletWitch · 26-30, F
Make yourself noticeable.
ScarletWitch · 26-30, F
Do something new.
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ColonelFlytrap · 70-79, M
@ScarletWitch try talking to them the way you want them to talk to you. Just speak, doesn't have to be funny or witty or cute, just honest.
blendednotshaken · 51-55, M
I'd wager that were you to dress sluttier you'd receive more than pass overs.
4meAndyou · F
Take off your bra.
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4meAndyou · F
@nobodycares Not for an hour while you go to the Mall.
HaHLoBravado · 36-40, M
😧 In this #metoo climate?!? lol

Women want everything! Mad when we look and depressed when we don't..
HaHLoBravado · 36-40, M
Well, there u go. If u don't think ur attractive than it probably shows in ur body language.
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johnny253 · 70-79, M
You wouldn't care so much if you weren't so lonely. Don't you have loved ones?
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coolboy86 · 36-40, M
i know what you mean i dont relate to my family either
johnny253 · 70-79, M
I know where you're coming from. I've felt that way too.Just a reminder though that it's only temporary@nobodycares
Deadcutie · 18-21, F
Maybe you are putting off serial killer vibes...
Deadcutie · 18-21, F
@nobodycares I don't know where
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Deadcutie · 18-21, F
@nobodycares you do look very angry, but that's a demon you have to confront.
purplepen · 51-55, F
Perhaps they would only approach you if you were on show behind a counter. Men are shy especially in their 20's.
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SW-User
The alternative blows just as much 😒
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coolboy86 · 36-40, M
when in fact they know you dont look familiar at all
SW-User
@coolboy86 idk, I guess.
Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M
Because as you've said, you aren't attractive
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coolboy86 · 36-40, M
@Jackaloftheazuresand it gets old she posts the same thing 2000000 times and how the fuck are we supposed to know its her life
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It is possible to give off the vibe "I'm so shy. Please, nobody look at me."
do you smile. or are you stoic?.
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me too. ppl dont approach me. they give me a wide birth ;D
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@nobodycares exactly. Thats not approachable. Smile😃
iamnikki · 31-35, F
What do you dress like? Walk with head down??
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iamnikki · 31-35, F
@nobodycares there we go. Guys probably see you as unappraochable. Slow down the walk, look up, smile at folks. I dont dress like a barbie either
sillysweetgirl · 26-30, F
That's my life right there
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Justme5969 · 61-69, M
Hi there!!! How are you??


I just noticed you........
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Ajz59852 · 36-40, M
People should notice you
your lucky.
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coolboy86 · 36-40, M
who knows
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
Some of us just don't approach people anymore. I have only ever approached two people IRL and was shot down hard both times. So I figure I won't bother anyone. Now I mostly meet and talk to women online. Doesn't always pan out, but I've made a lot of deep and meaningful friendships out of it.
coolboy86 · 36-40, M
damn even i wasnt shot down all the times ive tryed to talk to people and ive been with a descent amount of people in real life thanks you made me feel better about myself

 
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