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He really is a narcissist.

I'm so stupid for thinking he would change
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Beebo · M
Word of wisdom, it's hard to change someone else. I'm 60. I been thru it, my adult kids been thru it, my family been thru it, including my friends. Rarely you get anyone to change.
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Sad thing is it’s a choice they are free to choose otherwise they just don’t want to … but yes it is possible to melt a cold heart if they want it.

Don’t lose hope … be at peace that you offered love there’s no shame in that 🦋☀️
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
Narcissists don’t change because they blame everything they do on other people and expect them to adapt to what they want.
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Yup, they never change...those especially forget about it
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
I'm sorry but it's only a dead end with narcissists. They don't change. They only show a version of something to make us believe in them. Thing is expecting them to change is like banging your head on a wall expecting something but you'll end up bleeding.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@Beatbox34 I guess there are narcissists in every country.
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@Beatbox34
Thing is expecting them to change is like banging your head on a wall expecting something but you'll end up bleeding
that’s so true.
smiler2012 · 61-69
{@ivonne333] i do not know who you are talking about exactly but i can think of one good candidate that description fits well 😄 but joking apart a leopard never change its spots alas 🤷‍♂️
Sometimes, they do. But rarely.
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@PhoenixPhail narcissists don’t change, it’s in them.do you know any that have ?
@SW-User Yes, I've known some who have gotten better at being their true selves. It's not an easy task. Narcissism infiltrates the entire system and is very difficult to beat. Usually, the narcissist won't even be willing to recognize he's a narcissist. But, once in a blue moon, someone will when their life gets shitty enough that they have to look at what they're doing. But yeah, it's very rare. They usually just look for someone else to prey upon. And will usually find them.
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And will be, forever.
PDXNative1986 · 36-40, MVIP
emotional and unreasonable maybe but not stupid.

I mean like maybe you should have known better but it's a mistake a lot of people make.

and people rarely do change unless they hit rock bottom and I mean not false rock bottom but true rock bottom.

you can lead horses to water but they have to want to drink. in other words if a man doesn't want to change for you you can't cause him to.

I know that I have changed, maybe in ways others don't see as much as I do... but I do.

but there were things about me that wanted to.
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Indeed. Narcissists never change. Because they’re narcissistic
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Maybe not so much stupid as overly hopeful and forgiving. I've been there too.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
They don't change.
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Throw Doja Cat at him then 👀

 
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