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He really is a narcissist.

I'm so stupid for thinking he would change
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
I'm sorry but it's only a dead end with narcissists. They don't change. They only show a version of something to make us believe in them. Thing is expecting them to change is like banging your head on a wall expecting something but you'll end up bleeding.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@Beatbox34 I guess there are narcissists in every country.
Fairydust · F
@Beatbox34 [quote]Thing is expecting them to change is like banging your head on a wall expecting something but you'll end up bleeding[/quote] that’s so true.
Beebo · M
Word of wisdom, it's hard to change someone else. I'm 60. I been thru it, my adult kids been thru it, my family been thru it, including my friends. Rarely you get anyone to change.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
Narcissists don’t change because they blame everything they do on other people and expect them to adapt to what they want.
SW-User
Sad thing is it’s a choice they are free to choose otherwise they just don’t want to … but yes it is possible to melt a cold heart if they want it.

Don’t lose hope … be at peace that you offered love there’s no shame in that 🦋☀️
emotional and unreasonable maybe but not stupid.

I mean like maybe you should have known better but it's a mistake a lot of people make.

and people rarely do change unless they hit rock bottom and I mean not false rock bottom but true rock bottom.

you can lead horses to water but they have to want to drink. in other words if a man doesn't want to change for you you can't cause him to.

I know that I have changed, maybe in ways others don't see as much as I do... but I do.

but there were things about me that wanted to.
SW-User
Maybe not so much stupid as overly hopeful and forgiving. I've been there too.
InHeaven · F
Yup, they never change...those especially forget about it
smiler2012 · 56-60
{@ivonne333] i do not know who you are talking about exactly but i can think of one good candidate that description fits well 😄 but joking apart a leopard never change its spots alas 🤷‍♂️
SW-User
Indeed. Narcissists never change. Because they’re narcissistic
Sometimes, they do. But rarely.
Fairydust · F
@PhoenixPhail narcissists don’t change, it’s in them.do you know any that have ?
@Fairydust Yes, I've known some who have gotten better at being their true selves. It's not an easy task. Narcissism infiltrates the entire system and is [i]very[/i] difficult to beat. Usually, the narcissist won't even be [i]willing[/i] to recognize he's a narcissist. But, once in a blue moon, someone will when their life gets shitty enough that they [i]have[/i] to look at what they're doing. But yeah, it's very rare. They usually just look for someone else to prey upon. And will usually find them.
HannahSky · F
And will be, forever.
travelguy01 · 41-45, M
Throw Doja Cat at him then 👀
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
They don't change.

 
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