I am not proud of my kids.... My son came from down South to visit us for the Holidays and last night he told us a story....

It does look like your son let down his personal boundaries quite a bit to be liked by the strippers.

You are Mom.
You are more than entitled to your personal opinion on the situation he was involved in; you raised him.
I would like to say this behavior would stop once he sees the impact it has on you. It probably won’t work that way.
Maybe advise him to use better judgement on disclosing personal family information.

Well let's see... not proud of them... I see that maybe 1 boy might need some money management skills and the other has some curiosities most likely fueled by his age and hormones. Other than that, not really worth getting rattled about. The one son will probably learn some valuable money lessons as he's growing up and the other one... he's going to follow some curiosities until they're not worth checking out anymore. Neither of them has done anything really immoral like rob someone or murder someone or perform any sexual violence against someone.. (I'm assuming).
They're going to have a tough time growing up sticking to the expectations that are put upon them. The tighter the reins, the more they'll want to run.
I'm not concerned about the dancers. They have to make a living. Granted it's not the best living to choose but until I walk in their shoes I shouldn't judgeand won't. It's their decision, not anyone else's.

I wonder who's going to cast the first stone your way. There will always be someone. Perhaps a Christian that thinks they're a better christian than you are. Let's all get on the Merry-Go-Round and find out.. 🙄

There's so much worse out there they could be doing these days. At least the aren't hurting anyone or taking advantage of others. There, you should be proud of them. You don't have to like the strip club and that they go there, but is it really your business. Doesn't affect you does it?

Just my thoughts

I went to one when I was younger like 20. I did enjoy seeing the women there. I just watched. Nothing more. I would go again if the occasion was right.

I completely understand you situation but it must be noted that going to that strip bar has zero effect on things eternal. The fact is that the sin was there long before he went to the strip joint. Going to it only confirms the sin nature within.

What Jesus said to the adulterous woman:

"Jesus bent down and started to write on the ground with his finger. When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, ‘Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.’ Again he stooped down and wrote on the ground. At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there.

Jesus straightened up and said to her, "Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?" She said, "No one, Rabi." And Jesus said, "Neither do I condemn you. Go your way, and sin no more."

John 8:6-9

As a Christian, I'm not proud of Christians that look down on others for no reason.

I am here as Jesus granddaughter to tell you your son did well.

Because of that 3000 dollars the stripper doesn't have to strip for the next 4 months, and therefore less sinning will be committed for whole 4 months.

Blessed is he, for blessing the titty.

We pray Lord please save our kids, and help them walk worthy of you!

Thats sad. Read the Book of Psalter for them and ask God to stop it

$3000 on strippers is a heck of a lot of money! Especially in a week. I certainly hope he could afford it and isn't looking to you for bill money now.

The thrill wears off pretty quickly, and then it’s just all so sad.

Seems like maybe you did more talking about Jesus than living out what he taught. Typical Christian parents spend 18 years preaching and living in sin and then they’re surprised when their kids want nothing to do with God

They're probably acting out against living in such a restrictive life.

surprised they told you.

Where better to shine a light of salvation than in a den of darkness?

Oh my ! What's it like to be perfect ?
Did he kill or rape anyone ? No !
There are worse things in this world that could be done .
Not very Christian of you to judge ...

They are grown adults, they can do whatever they wish.