I always lose everything i dont wanna lose

Dont use other people to depend upon your happiness - its psychologically destructive.

I know it sounds counter productive - but its the truth .
If your happiness is because of them - then it means you'll do the same in a relationship, and that makes your happiness, their responsibility.
Which isnt fair.

Losing someone is sad, yes. But your level of emotional response is a warning sign.

Perhaps too much heart for others and not enough for yourself?

Sorry.


I know im harsh.....but this is a truth you dont want to learn too late 🫤

This kinda brought back memories of some of the guys I got attached to when I was younger. It was like talking to them was the only form of happiness in my life. So I know how you feel. I personally didn’t want to try again with anyone else, I wanted nobody to replace him. I just wanted him back because talking to him made me so happy.

These are very casual occurrence these days. Maybe it's your first experience. You never had him to lose him now. Just consider the episode as a movie that ended in a tragedy and get ready for the next movie. But from next time you be the director and do get too attached.

If you two are that close, can he not provide an alternate way of contacting him? If not, I’d say it’s a one sided relationship.

i understand that feeling, loosing someone who you care for is really hard. I know because i also lost a friend. I want to assure you that it will be okay and he will come back :) please make sure to eat and stay safe <3

The thing about on line people, is that even those with the purest intent are not really who you believe them to be. They may be fully open and honest with you. But they are not "complete" and you join the dots so to speak, and fill in the blanks of someone from your experience, not their life..
Then of course, you do have the situation where you open yourself to someone who isnt genuine at all, for any number of reasons. I am not suggesting you dont open yourself to caring. Just keep your guard up and dont invest too heavily..😷

Don’t get so attached to people online unless you’ve interacted with them for a very long time

Online relationships can be fleeting. But I understand you may feel sad about losing a friend. It’s always difficult. While they’re not replaceable having new friends will help

Well are you even sure it was a guy you were talking to maybe they left because they could no longer keep up with the lie and took your drama as a way out.

I can relate, did you talk to hin about that?

What do you mean by pure?

You are not alone.