I always lose everything i dont wanna lose

The thing about on line people, is that even those with the purest intent are not really who you believe them to be. They may be fully open and honest with you. But they are not "complete" and you join the dots so to speak, and fill in the blanks of someone from your experience, not their life..
Then of course, you do have the situation where you open yourself to someone who isnt genuine at all, for any number of reasons. I am not suggesting you dont open yourself to caring. Just keep your guard up and dont invest too heavily..😷

If you two are that close, can he not provide an alternate way of contacting him? If not, I’d say it’s a one sided relationship.

Online relationships can be fleeting. But I understand you may feel sad about losing a friend. It’s always difficult. While they’re not replaceable having new friends will help

Well are you even sure it was a guy you were talking to maybe they left because they could no longer keep up with the lie and took your drama as a way out.

I can relate, did you talk to hin about that?

Dont use other people to depend upon your happiness - its psychologically destructive.

I know it sounds counter productive - but its the truth .
If your happiness is because of them - then it means you'll do the same in a relationship, and that makes your happiness, their responsibility.
Which isnt fair.

Losing someone is sad, yes. But your level of emotional response is a warning sign.

Perhaps too much heart for others and not enough for yourself?

Sorry.


I know im harsh.....but this is a truth you dont want to learn too late 🫤