That is not true. You check out who you like.

If someone calls you a sl*t over something so trivial, they’re probably just projecting their own insecurities.

I doubt most people would/should care.

Cause it's not lady like to lust over a guy, even tho all of us women especially me look at a hot guy and just want to tear his clothes off and ravish his body.

Envy is one hell of a drug

You definitely need to interact with better friends and culture then.

I began with a voluminous reply to this post, then gutted it because. it's one more thread like this. THE best thing I can speak to this is that.....checking out a girl or a guy is not and SHOULD not be a condemnation. Where the break comes, I suspect, is the way in which that "checking out" happens. We talking luscious eye contact in a posh bar and grill with friends in London, or..a shrimp house off a bayou in Loooseianna.
So many styles exist, yet the goals and similar conquest challenges reap their own rewards. Ultimately, in my book girlie, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Develop your own method of talking with that fan.

I check out hot guys, hot women, hot cars, hot weather and hot food. Don’t worry about it how will anyone know?

Me neither its old fashioned and in this day an age shouldnt happen . It pisses me off when women are called degrading names because they have normal thoughts and feelings . Why is a bloke a stud but a girl a slag its wrong . I have your back girl ignore those with dark age ideals and be your own person . Anyone who cant respect you isnt worth bothering with .

I'm pretty sure men who checks out women in public are more criticized than women because a women checking a man out doesn't contain they predatory rape threat

"What is 'double standard'?" for $500 Mr. Trebek!

Guess it depends where you are. More women call other women sluts around here, and that's mostly out of jealousy or "perceived competition" as studies describe it.

Proves they know nothing🙂

a "slut" is a girl that has lots of sex

just now with youuuuu

Well you know you not one so dont entertain it.

No idea why whoever made that insinuation took it that far. Anyone can check out any hot person. It only applies once we talk about actual sexual exploits. If you check out a hot guy, that makes you much like most other women (and vice versa with men towards women) out there.

It doesnt make you a sl*t it makes you human.

You're not. And anyone who says you are is full of crap. I hope your friends aren't like that.

They have double standards. Just came from a relationship that he had a standard for him and held me to a different, higher education standard

Looking at people doesn't make anybody a slut 😂

Lol but imagine someone only having sex in doggystyle all the time because they fear looking at the person would make them a slut lol

You'll never arrive if you submit or cower. For the record, you shouldn't apologize for stepping in, acknowledging what you want, and [gasp] even offering an initial handshake if it's warranted, to express yourself. Real men....and I mean, the best men, will appreciate your etiquette. I think it's a pleasant surprise that, you conduct yourself, and your body language as a class act, and NEVAH be afraid, after that initial greet?....to walk away if, after meeting the man of your attraction, turns out to be a total douche. Walking away is your best defense.
Best of luck

It's called a double standard, and you can just ignore it. It's the other person's issue if they don't like it.

Because most woman become mothers I guess. They have different expectations.

No doubt there are a lot of double standards. Personally, I'd be more than flattered....

You might distance yourself from anyone who says this... this is a control technique.

Sexism. People refuse to end sexism. We're not going to make that the goal.

It's your culture I suspect. You're surrounded by people who think women are a passive possession. Because I don't know anyone who would say that.

it is called systemic sexism.
we still have a long way to go

Because the world runs on double standards and hypocrisy.

Because you don't know how to operate in stealth mode ..

Who says that? It’s completely normal.

You are not. And they are should some people say otherwise then their options are beneath your concern. Bugs are more enlightened.

Who says you are ? Nobody worth listening to.

I don't think most guys mind being checked out.

You have to have sex with a lot of men to be considered a slut.If you are then wear the name with pride.

It's 2023. Noone can check out anyone. It's assault. 😆

Why would you think is the case?

Who says that?

Its not you its other people

It’s society. It’s not right.

You can look, but you can't stare

I saw you baby checking dat azz

There are so many double standards, it's sickening. Don't get me started lol

In Bible Study?

you can check me out

You checking out a guy does not make you a slut,no one says that lol

The world of double standards. But if your car breaks down in a pouring rain on the side of the road and need assistance, you'll be glad you're not a guy.

Definitely not a slut for checking someone out