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Happy Birthday Loser

It’s my birthday this Saturday and I’d made plans to spend it in London with a friend. It’s her birthday on Friday and we bought tickets to see My Neighbour Totoro. I’ve been looking forward to it for months. Last night she told me she’d forgotten about it but now couldn’t afford to go. The show is paid for and I offered to cover the hotel. She said she’s working now to earn extra money instead.
I understand life can be difficult at times but is it really possible to forget plans for your own birthday??? I should be use to it at my age but it’s hard to ignore the rejection twisting in my gut.
It’s going to be almost impossible to find someone to take her place this late 😢
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Bleed · 41-45, F
I’ll definitely still be going. I’ve gotten use to doing stuff solo rather than miss out. But I saw the show last time it came to London and she’d missed it. This was her idea and as much as I’m looking forward to seeing it again I don’t want to spend my birthday alone.
@Bleed can’t even tell you how many shows I’ve gone to by myself because my friends don’t rock like I rock 😂
Ferric67 · M
@Bleed did you enjoy the show?
Bleed · 41-45, F
@Ferric67 Yes! Even better the second time around.
Oneofthestormboys · 56-60, M
Yeah, I’d absolutely go anyway. You can do what you want whenever you want with no compromises and have a thoroughly good time. I often find that’s the most enjoyable way to spend a day anyway! Enjoy yourself, and happy birthday for Saturday! 🎉
NoxAeterna · M
I'd love to go in her place if the fates were kinder. My day is coming up too and that sounds like an awesome birthday outing. Seriously though it does sound frustrating, I'm sorry.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
Wow, I’m really sorry you’re going through this especially around your birthday. You planned something special and meaningful, I'd be hurt and disappointed too. You deserve to be celebrated especially on your birthday. If I were closer, I’d gladly step in. Would you still go? Maybe there’s still a way to make the weekend feel special just for you, even if it’s not what you planned.
Jacko1971 · 51-55, M
Friends are like that. I asked a friend about 6 weeks ago if he he was interested in going to a football match. I mentioned it again the other day and now he is busy. I don't want to go on my own so the opportunity has gone by.
AdaXI · T
My birthday on Saturday too B. I hope you still manage to enjoy yourself though and really sorry to hear your friend let you down.
乂º _ º乂
Bleed · 41-45, F
@AdaXI Happy Birthday for Saturday! I’ve had 2 best friends growing up that also shared my birthday
AdaXI · T
@Bleed You too love, yeah we also share it with Queen Victoria as well, haha😅
乂^◡^乂
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
You learned something about her, rather than yourself. You're not a loser, you're cool for going on your own and while I don't celebrate birthdays, I hope you have a fantastic day!
Uncfred · 61-69, M
Say hello to the people either side of you when you go, its amazing how it relaxes the feelings.
Most of all though, enjoy your hard earned pleasure.
goliathtree · 56-60, M
Well, Happy Birthday from over across the water....Enjoy the show even if you are alone.
Are you still going to go? Sometimes going alone can be just as much fun.
Teslin · M
Hopefully you go anyway. Even if you can't find someone to join you.
That sucks, I’m sorry to hear that.
Hopefully you can salvage the day and enjoy yourself..
happy birthday 🎊 !
In case I forget 🎂

Oops! I didn’t notice the date of the post!
smiler2012 · 61-69
@Bleed happy birthday for saturday have a wonderful day
Have fun. Id love to go. Treat yourself and make the most of it.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
Well how did your birthday go?
Bleed · 41-45, F
@updown2020 It was equally brilliant and exhausting. The show was even better the second time around. My 16 year old decided I shouldn’t go alone so she came with me. She had a massive meltdown and refused to use the underground 🤦🏼‍♀
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
Im sorry that happened to you. Thats some homemade bull💩
AntisocialTroll · 56-60, F
Maybe you'll meet someone fun during the interlude.
Ramrod · 46-50, M
Yeah,that is messed up. :(
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Oh gosh, that’s really sad.
durinsBane1983 · 46-50, M
guess you'l just have to make other plans or adjust them.
Lilymoon · F
Well that blows.
Go yourself and enjoy.
That’s pretty damn tacky on her part. I’d be pissed.
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updown2020 · 61-69, M
Scab the tickets

 
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