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Would you crumble if your closest friends and family actually despise you?

Raaii · 22-25, F
It has happened several times before
Some really despise me
No not some but most of m sc closed people just despise me inside
ths truth hurts but still I can't leave anyone *
popmol · 22-25, M
@Raaii i'm sorry to hear that happened
BasedTurnip2391 · 31-35, M
Nope I'd actually love it. Extra incentive to leave the country I'm in (UK).

I come from 2 dysfunctional families anyway and the friends I do have are very low maintenance, so they'd support me emigrating.

I'd bring my mum with me of course 😎
popmol · 22-25, M
@BasedTurnip2391 well mom would be part of the family. also i know UK is going to sht but you would leave the great accents!
Adogslife · 61-69, M
I was disowned and disinherited by my family. It’s unpleasant, but it makes you stronger. It helps you value happiness found in other things in your life, especially your partner. It also makes you very resilient.
popmol · 22-25, M
@Adogslife or it can break you down that too.
CardiacKintsugi · 61-69, F
yes, even tho it has happened. I exhibited outlandish and some unforgivable behaviour in my younger years, there were repercussions, which pointed the errors of my ways. It's a long and winding road to a work in progress.
popmol · 22-25, M
@CardiacKintsugi but you have improved yes?
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Deep inside, I somewhat expect them to anyway. I mean, it's not a rocket science, if you are close to someone they express their opinions and what they like and loathe...so if the shoe fits.. 🤷🏻‍♀️
popmol · 22-25, M
@CrazyMusicLover i'm sorry to hear that ;( but it can't be that bad!
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yes! That would be awful, I do have a lot of people who don’t like me because of some things I did at school/college, but my closest friends are super tight with me!
popmol · 22-25, M
@Strongtea how lovely! :)
I don't have much of either - if I was despised by who there is, I could be devastated.
popmol · 22-25, M
@thinkingoutloud i'm sorry to hear ;(
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
My fam does despise me. Except for my brothers. Lol
popmol · 22-25, M
@DearAmbellina2113 how come if i may ask?
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@popmol mom has hated me since birth, basically. Dad won't speak to me since he got remarried.
popmol · 22-25, M
@DearAmbellina2113 i'm so sorry to hear ;(
Never happened, not going to happen
popmol · 22-25, M
@SimplyLogicalDiscipline your friends are immortal unwavering beings that have your trust?
@popmol yup friends and family
popmol · 22-25, M
@SimplyLogicalDiscipline how lovely! well you are lovely so i would not see a reason why they would either!
calicuz · 51-55, M
No, it would make it easier to walk away.

popmol · 22-25, M
@calicuz ooh dear 😯
Lostpoet · M
Nope cause i despised them first.
popmol · 22-25, M
@Lostpoet haha smart!
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
That was my childhood.
popmol · 22-25, M
@Thevy29 i'm sorry to hear ;(
deadteddy · 26-30, F
popmol · 22-25, M
@deadteddy i'm glad to hear you have such good friends that you'd feel that way if you lost them :)
popmol · 22-25, M
@LordShadowfire i'm glad to hear you have a good bond with them

 
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