How to make friends..
Either I'm just that socially awkward or weird but it's like nearly impossible to make new friends..😅😭😭
36-40, F
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DarkLadyNight · 46-50, F
DarkLadyNight · 46-50, F
@WanderLustChick that’s even more badass!! I hope you do! No harm in trying! Keep me posted!
WanderLustChick · 36-40, F
@DarkLadyNight will do. I've always wanted to play some metal 😊
DarkLadyNight · 46-50, F
@WanderLustChick hell yeah! I’m learning Metallica on my violin!
DarkLadyNight · 46-50, F
No. People suck. I don’t mean that in a facetious way but people, I’ve found, are inherently selfish.
I have to work hard to be open and welcoming when my natural reaction is to be closed off and suspicious.
Having a dog helps and you know what? I’ve actually made friends at the local art supply store!
Try talking to EVERYONE you come in contact with. I comment on what people buy at the grocery store. I ask people what they are going to create at the art store. Don’t worry about being a dork—that’s my issue! Keep in mind that people will respond positively or they don’t and you move on to the next person!
Hope this helps!
I have to work hard to be open and welcoming when my natural reaction is to be closed off and suspicious.
Having a dog helps and you know what? I’ve actually made friends at the local art supply store!
Try talking to EVERYONE you come in contact with. I comment on what people buy at the grocery store. I ask people what they are going to create at the art store. Don’t worry about being a dork—that’s my issue! Keep in mind that people will respond positively or they don’t and you move on to the next person!
Hope this helps!
WanderLustChick · 36-40, F
@DarkLadyNight that's great advice. I'm going to try that.
plungesponge · 41-45, M
WanderLustChick · 36-40, F
@plungesponge haha I'll give it a try
wakanda4eva · 26-30, F
@plungesponge that's how I would love to find friends
plungesponge · 41-45, M
give it a shot lol
GenerationX · 41-45, M
Be yourself. Even if that means you take a lot of shit form people. Even if it means you step outside of your upbringing, or social norms. If you stay true to yourself people will respect you. Even your enemies will become envious of your ability to stand strong and overcome. 😉
thats good and i have the problem too. hard finding things to relate to others and find connections.
for me ive always been closed off so its harder to communicate and relate.
wakanda4eva · 26-30, F
WanderLustChick · 36-40, F
@doodatt your right 😊
abe182 · 46-50, M
At first glance you seem alright. Pm me if you wish.
abe182 · 46-50, M
@WanderLustChick how has dating been? You're plenty attractive. For me dating has absolutely sucked, women are just batshit, no offense.
abe182 · 46-50, M
@WanderLustChick that's very true. And hey if you're happy then great! Now go get about eight cats 😁
What's weird about you 🤔
@WanderLustChick might be better if you moved 😂
WanderLustChick · 36-40, F
@NunIover funny you say that. I'm actually moving to either DC or Colorado very soon
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
Don't worry, just be yourself, you will click with a few. That is really all you need. A few close friends trumps a large number of casual ones.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@WanderLustChick do you belong to any community groups, religious and other? That is always a good start. No friends at work?
WanderLustChick · 36-40, F
@samueltyler2 none. I don't have any hobbies. The most is playing video games and going to concerts. That's it lol I work a lot and the people at my work are snotty girls I can't relate to.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@WanderLustChick try once or twice, you might click with one other friends.
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WanderLustChick · 36-40, F
@ensigng I get that. It's just so depressing sometimes because I do try.
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WanderLustChick · 36-40, F
@ensigng lol I talk about things I like? Music and videogames but that doesn't usually go over well with other adult women
mrbuddhawannabe · 56-60, M
I have found that the more comfortable I am with myself and act/be myself, the "right" people are attracted to me. I make more compatible friends that way.
WanderLustChick · 36-40, F
@mrbuddhawannabe lol I've made zero friends being myself
mrbuddhawannabe · 56-60, M
@WanderLustChick Why do you think that is?
Calmsoul · 31-35, M
Don't forget to share with me if any of the given tricks work :)
WanderLustChick · 36-40, F
@Calmsoul haha will do
Calmsoul · 31-35, M
@WanderLustChick when do i expect to hear about it ??🤓
pdockal · 56-60, M
Lots of people feel this way especially when we don't exactly fit into any paticular group
Coolkid77 · 31-35, M
I'll be your friend. I'm weird too and make friends pretty easy.
SW-User
Oh Wow! Why
WanderLustChick · 36-40, F
@SW-User I can't connect with people! I try to be sweet and nice but it never goes anywhere
GenerationX · 41-45, M
😉