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Cutting ties 👔

Have you ever cut ties with someone and your life seems much calmer? I cut ties with a friend on here a while back and i noticed that my life is just......better.
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onrealityofdreams · M Best Comment
Yes I have. It wasn't pleasant but my sanity was worth it.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@onrealityofdreams I can 100% relate to that
@AngelUnforgiven I'm happy for you and proud of you for doing it.
And thank you for BC!
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@onrealityofdreams thank you! You are quite welcome 🌺

PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
Mmhmm. It’s unfortunate that that feeling of relief comes, especially when they were once so close to you. But that weight being lifted just reveals that, while the decision was hard to make, it was the right one.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@PerfectionOfTheHeart exactly! I felt bad at first. But i realized it had to be done
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@AngelUnforgiven Takes a tremendous amount of strength to be the one who says enough is enough. Proud of you for making that difficult decision.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@PerfectionOfTheHeart thank you so much. I really appreciate that. It was very hard i was broken up about it for a while. I'm good now! Thank you 💞
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
Yes. I cut ties with two friends who were just making me angry every time I talked with them. Once I did, I mucu happier and relaozed I didn't miss them at all.

Sometimes you have to let people go to grow.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@FoxyQueen i agree with you 100% . It feels like a breath of fresh air with them being gone.
Yes. It's a mixed bag. I still miss my dad, but he pretended to be deaf the whole time I was growing up, then he got a new wife, dumped my Mom and was suddenly fully cured of deafness, no explanation. No talk. Silence around the family. It's too much for me. No sister, no brother, no father! No way.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@Roundandroundwego wow I am so sorry. That's just terrible.
Kiesel · 56-60, M
I’m actually at deep battle within myself to do that with someone.. there’s this micro glimmer of hope I keep clinging to based on her more and more rare signals…
But it’s paining me quite deeply…
I know when she eventually reaches and and says hey or good morning and acts as though nothing is wrong, when I am brief with my reply (because I honestly don’t know what to say) she acts offended making me out as the bad guy…
For the climate she’s constructed! I’m at a fkn loss.
It’s as if she wants me to keep on standby…
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@Kiesel you should never have to feel on standby for anyone. Whatever you decide to do I hope that it works out for you. All I can say is put your happiness and your peace of mind first
chuck7882 · 61-69, M
I just cut ties with someone on here who made an insulting post that I know was directed at me. Right now, I feel as though I will miss her but I know I'm better off not dealing with her. The funny thing is she already deleted the post after I called her out on it, but the damage is done
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@chuck7882 that is so petty. I think that certain things need to be private. You don't publicly insult someone whose supposed to be your friend i dont care how angry you get.
chuck7882 · 61-69, M
@AngelUnforgiven it was more like a "stop liking so many of my posts" type of thing
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@chuck7882 same thing happened to me they actually got upset with me for it, for not liking their posts but you're not going to force me to like something if i dont want to.
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
Unfortunately at times would seem
Did you let that friend know why you took that step?
Cigarguy · M
Yes I cut ties with my mother and everything has been so much better since I did. Should of done it years ago
Acheron · 41-45, M
Sure I’ve broken bridges. Still have to deal with myself though 🤣
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@Acheron lol thats so true 😂😂😂😂
Wiseacre · F
Yes, indeed!
Usually I’m the one they cut ties with and their lives are much poorer for it lol
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@BiasForAction lol hey it happens
Yep, emotional vampires. They will drain you unless you cut the cord.
caccoon · 36-40
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@caccoon thank you ladybug ❣

 
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