Unfriend or leave it be Someone youu've known 32 years. Since middle school. Very good friends...

I had a friend for 20 years; we did many things together, helped each other out, and our husbands were friends, too. We lost touch for a couple of years, and when we reconnected, I discovered her political views were different than mine, which was okay, but I also discovered she was racist very racist, and I couldn't deal with it. We stopped talking, and then I had to unfriend her. I didn't block her, but I did unfriend her, and now we haven't spoken for a few years. It is said, I know.

FORMERLYbatovn · 61-69, M

Sometimes, is difficult as it is, the best thing to do is to protect yourself. If that person is being derogatory and being negative and toxic.. your first responsibility is to your own mental and emotional health. Sadly people change, sadly, the internet changes people. Even after all those years and unfortunately people become something we don't know. If you don't want to see her negative posts in her comments and everything else I would it's very least unfollow that person that way you can still be friends but you won't see anything they put on

SledgeHammer · 46-50, M

32 years....
Thats quite a long time. More than half your life.

Who knows - maybe those people she talked about put her down somewhere/somehow and she just reacted...

For a 32 year old friendship.... I think maybe you should give her a chance to explain herself....

🤷‍♂

joe438 · 61-69, M

I’m not sure I’d bother unfriending anyone. They’d know and it would let them know I cared. I’d just mute their posts and get on with my life. It’s sad when old friends get weird, but it happens.

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

I had a good friend who inexplicably vanished from my life. I know he’s alive and well though Facebook and yet he doesn’t speak to me any longer.

seaglass · F

Yes, do it. It's done and you'll feel better after the initial odd feeling. You'll feel free 😌

ShenaniganFoodie · 36-40, M

I will always,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, be your friend

Lilnonames · F

Me, I have no problem unfriending and blocking them out my life and move on, I'm not gonna stress over why they did it, but they did do it, so I'd say bye bye, and move on, good luck🍀