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Unfriend or leave it be

Someone youu've known 32 years. Since middle school. Very good friends for 27 of those years. Then one day your good friend who you spent so much time with over the years ditches you when going to meet up. Then does it again, and then never contacts you again.

It hurt a LOT. Come to find out it's ok she ditched me as a friend because the following year, on social media, I saw some really negative things she said about others who are not well off. I thought Wow I really didn't know YOU. I SEe her on social media and it still pangs me a bit. Would you unfriend them? I felt really strange to actually do it so I have not..but on the other hand I really don't care to see her posts anymore.😟
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joe438 · 61-69, M
I’m not sure I’d bother unfriending anyone. They’d know and it would let them know I cared. I’d just mute their posts and get on with my life. It’s sad when old friends get weird, but it happens.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@joe438 Well the issue is I don't want to really see them or their thoughts anymore. Because they are probably seeing my posts pretty often. I never had thought about it. I really want no connection. I could mute but I'm uncertain if they'd be able to see my posts still too
joe438 · 61-69, M
@Coralmist It is just social media. Blocking is definitely a solution.