Unfriend or leave it be

Someone youu've known 32 years. Since middle school. Very good friends for 27 of those years. Then one day your good friend who you spent so much time with over the years ditches you when going to meet up. Then does it again, and then never contacts you again.

It hurt a LOT. Come to find out it's ok she ditched me as a friend because the following year, on social media, I saw some really negative things she said about others who are not well off. I thought Wow I really didn't know YOU. I SEe her on social media and it still pangs me a bit. Would you unfriend them? I felt really strange to actually do it so I have not..but on the other hand I really don't care to see her posts anymore.😟

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WonderGirl ·

I had a friend for 20 years; we did many things together, helped each other out, and our husbands were friends, too. We lost touch for a couple of years, and when we reconnected, I discovered her political views were different than mine, which was okay, but I also discovered she was racist very racist, and I couldn't deal with it. We stopped talking, and then I had to unfriend her. I didn't block her, but I did unfriend her, and now we haven't spoken for a few years. It is said, I know.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@WonderGirl I'm sorry. It really feels like Were we friends then??? It feels like you don't know them when someone just turns like that. I think I might actually do it ... thanks 🍀