Unfriend or leave it be

Someone youu've known 32 years. Since middle school. Very good friends for 27 of those years. Then one day your good friend who you spent so much time with over the years ditches you when going to meet up. Then does it again, and then never contacts you again.

It hurt a LOT. Come to find out it's ok she ditched me as a friend because the following year, on social media, I saw some really negative things she said about others who are not well off. I thought Wow I really didn't know YOU. I SEe her on social media and it still pangs me a bit. Would you unfriend them? I felt really strange to actually do it so I have not..but on the other hand I really don't care to see her posts anymore.😟

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SledgeHammer · 46-50, M

32 years....
Thats quite a long time. More than half your life.

Who knows - maybe those people she talked about put her down somewhere/somehow and she just reacted...

For a 32 year old friendship.... I think maybe you should give her a chance to explain herself....

🤷‍♂

Baybreeze · 41-45, F

@SledgeHammer It was about a random person in a pic online she didn't know, and it was truly unbelievable what she said😟 she made very passive aggressive remarks right before she ditched me and so I think I know the reason. It just feels sad to completely cut ties

SledgeHammer · 46-50, M

@Baybreeze well I can't tell you what to do but 32 years ..,.. there has to be a better break off

Baybreeze · 41-45, F

@SledgeHammer I don't care much anymore really...she sure does not care whatsoever. Didn't care to ever speak to me again.🙁 It's just I feel badly unfriending anyone. But it's probably time .

Baybreeze · 41-45, F

@SledgeHammer I Def wish it could've been different, we were really good friends. But to ditch me cold turkey for good as if we weren't even friends?? I just have to let go I think ... thank you🌼