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Is it normal?

I have a friend whom i talked to everyday for past few years and suddenly he wants talk on schedule like only om friday,saturday and sunday, is this considered normal friendship?
InHeaven · F
Ya. Maybe he is busy and is trying to manage his time somehow to fit everything in 🤔🤔
In all relationships, of every variety there are boundaries and then respect of such boundaries. So, yes this is basically normal.
rachelsj · 22-25, F
Maybe he wants something more then friendship and feels he'll not get that from you
Teslin · M
@rachelsj Hmmm, good point !!
I was actually thinking the opposite.
But you could be correct.
TinyViolins · 31-35, M
I had a friend like that. Sometimes you just exhaust the topics you want to talk about and would rather focus on other things than just talking for the sake of talking.

Going down to a schedule might just be his way of making time for you while also getting other things done. Or maybe he just doesn't feel like he has much to contribute and would rather wait until he has something to say.
Normal is what is agreed upon between the two people involved.
Keep in mind the possibility If that friend needed something and thought you could be of assistance they’d not be using a schedule to communicate with you.
As well you should find out what this schedule thing is all about.
Iwillwait · M
Friends that make time for one another do we'll, however this would have to be done with the Grace of knowing that not all days/dates will be achieved. Both of you need to be ok with that.
Sapio · 51-55, M
Could it be due to his work schedule? He'd rather speak with you when he can devote the time to talk with you.
Ontheroad · M
Could be he has other things he has to do... talk to him and ask what's going on.
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
Sounds like he is trying to end the friendship. Kinda sucks to by you but life is what it is.
Maybe he is putting boundaries because he needs space
Askeladd · 31-35, M
No. It’s not normal. They aren’t even worth your time anymore.
Normal? Not really. He's making you a priority when he can.
IM5688 · 61-69, M
Don't complain, at least you get him for the weekends.
ArtieKat · M
@cutehamster93 Is this a real-life friend or an online one?
SJones48 · 41-45, M
He may have a job during the week and is busy
Pretzel · 61-69, M
maybe that's when his wife isn't around?
RedBaron · M
What does normal even mean?
Seems he wants boundaries
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
Sure and it’s a good idea too
hes GF gets jelly
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
He’s probably busy 🤷🏾‍♂️

 
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