Is it strange to be 30 years old and have no friends in real life?

I am 43 and don't have. I did have however it got to the point that I felt I was thr only one making an effort so I stopped, and guess what? Didn't hear from anyone.

My profile declares myself as boring. Maybe that's the problem.

Though I feel much more free now, one less thing for me to worry about. X

Friends tend to start disappearing when people start building their own families, which is often around 30 for our generation.
However, considering the number of people in their 30s who nowadays don't even have a partner, let alone children, it's almost bizarre how many still can't find friends. I assume many don't even want them or possibly don't want to invest their time, energy and money into them.

I would love to have you in my life for real , your gorgeous 😍 and fabulous 👌, You should come and holiday with me .

I used to know literally hundreds of people from work to the 'then' rave scene back in the late 80s early 90s. The older and wiser i got the less people were in my life. I have 2 real friends out of the 100s i knew. Which shows that quality will always beat quantity. You truly arent missing much as far as lots of people go. I feel for you though but, sometimes online friends are the ones you can tell almost anything to without you having the fear of them dirting on you in RL. I truly hope you find 1 good friend even at some point. Because honestly it more than equates to alot of 'acquaintances. I wish you well.

It's not as strange [i]these[/i] days to have no real-life friends. People have grown away from themselves and each other. I [i]used[/i] to have a few friends in real life, but I don't hear from them, even when I call or write to them. All of society is suffering from this.

Well if it helps I don't have any irl friends anymore, honestly they're not as great as you might think. To me personally I prefer having online friends because it's way easier to find someone who cares about you and shares your interests. If they make you feel important and cared about then I don't think it matters if they're irl or online

I am sorry to hear what you are going through. I may not be a girl but I do know feelings. And it sucks deeply when they are hurt. Your words hit hard with me and I wish the best for you. You are not only beautiful on the outside but also on the inside. Keep your chin up, you are deserving of nothing but the best

I never really had many friends growing up..I had aquaintances and most of those have dispersed over the years. I'm not sure if I'd be friend material anyhow you have to reply to texts in less than a week I'm not sure I can handle that type of commitment.

I think most women are like that

Story of my life. I don’t really have any friends. Even my spouse was a friend of my sister’s before we met.

Unfortunately life isn't easy
We all have different paths thru life
Wish i had better news for you but .........

Awww, I feel so sorry for you. I don’t have many friends and it’s horrid.

There are many people like you.

Have you no sister or brother, who can introduce you to their friends.

I introduced someone that way to her brother in laws friend. They are suitably matched. And I am pleased. All I got in return was bitterness, and abuse, but does that really matter. I moved two people on, who had difficulty meeting people.

Kind of unusual when we are kids.
As grown ups though, most people want friends but life gets in the way.
If someone is married, they get domesticated into non-existence.
Even if not, there's adult obligations like work. Even during our time off, we just want to relax or catch up on other stuff.
Kind of a lonely way to go through life.

I understand that pain 100%. All the friends I've had are online. Live has been difficult for the 30 yrs I've been living but friends online are still real. It's just they are far away. Life is good because of those friends online. I wouldn't be here without them.

Its probably because you're really pretty and they feel threatened by you. You just need to find other really good looking girls to hang out with.

Wow. I hope that you find what you're looking for. I really do. Don't lose hope.