Is it strange to be 30 years old and have no friends in real life?

And also never had a friend your whole life. I dont mean online. All my friends are online. But sometimes i wish i had a real life friend. Who liked me. And do things. And do girl things. I mean I mever even had a virthday party my whole life. Only once when i was a kid. And no one showed up. And then 1 more time when i was 11. I feel isolated a lot. And being sick all the time means i must be home. And im also scared to go out. I guess ill mever experience having a true friend.

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PhoenixPhail · M

It's not as strange these days to have no real-life friends. People have grown away from themselves and each other. I used to have a few friends in real life, but I don't hear from them, even when I call or write to them. All of society is suffering from this.

SandWitch · 26-30, F

@PhoenixPhail
I have found the same thing. I am perplexed at how most people I typically interact with have simply disconnected themselves from all aspects of life going on around them, almost as if they were still in a state of isolation during the height of Covid.

PhoenixPhail · M

@SandWitch I think their state of isolation is fueled by their indoctrination and resulting state of hypnotism. So many people have become machine-like. It's a sad state of being for individuals, and the world, in general. But, I remain steadfast. I hope you're finding your way thought this social maze of smoke and mirrors.

SandWitch · 26-30, F

@PhoenixPhail
Smoke and mirrors is a good way of putting it! You know as well as I do that none of it is real. Every aspect of what we experience is nothing more than an illusion of reality. But that's another story for another day I suppose!

PhoenixPhail · M

@SandWitch I agree; that's exactly what it is.