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Nomad7 · 22-25, M
Why would he tell you his reason for cancellation? I’d still cancel with you for this reason, but I’d say something like “My dog is unwell” or “I have a pest control issue” and hook up with the woman, then meet you and hook up with you later
[big][center][u][i][b][c=A69800]Nope if we actually make plans and he or she does not turn up AND ALSO NOT SAYING WHY it is bye bye.. if they send something, I might think it through if I wanna know them or not. 🤷🏼♀️
Say if trying to make friends usually it goes ok but once it went ummm not great, ended up going anyway a while back coz maybe girl would message and liked music Line Up at that place. Ended up having a great time even though the girl and friends where "apparently not there" I ended up blocking her as was kinda annoyed/pissed off as did not let me know by app, site, phone call or whatever![/c][/b][/i][/u][/center][/big]
Say if trying to make friends usually it goes ok but once it went ummm not great, ended up going anyway a while back coz maybe girl would message and liked music Line Up at that place. Ended up having a great time even though the girl and friends where "apparently not there" I ended up blocking her as was kinda annoyed/pissed off as did not let me know by app, site, phone call or whatever![/c][/b][/i][/u][/center][/big]
Disguised · 56-60, M
If this happened to me then it would depend on the relationship i had with the friend... i have female friends... as in just friends nothing else... if they arranged and cancelled because they had an offer of a proper date at short notice then .. you know what... im happy for them... who knows it might be their one they are looking for... and i really wouldn't want to stop that from happening... but yes i can see its annoying and they wanted to... but we aren't always in control of our destiny
Mamapolo2016 · F
Fortunately it happened when you weren't counting on him about something important.
solitaire · 41-45, F
@Mamapolo2016 Yeah I don't think he's someone I can rely on
Matt85 · 36-40, M
whipped!
Fluffybull · F
Tell him to f off.
Renkon · 36-40, M
It's unacceptable.
Let me ask you a question for clarity.
If you were in his shoes, If he was the one waiting for the drinks, while you have had the opportunity to be with your dream guy,
What would you do in this situation?
Let me ask you a question for clarity.
If you were in his shoes, If he was the one waiting for the drinks, while you have had the opportunity to be with your dream guy,
What would you do in this situation?
SW-User
I would block him so fast he wouldn't even have memory of my existence.
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
No, I wouldn't. I had a girl who did the same kind of thing to me a few months back, she would talk about in person that we should watch a movie I own on blu-ray that I really wanted her to see, and she seemed excited about it. She said she'd message me about it more once she got her schedule for the following week, yeah she never did message me about it.
solitaire · 41-45, F
@IWasCallingYaLarry The least she could have done was tell you whether the plan was on or not
Reflection2 · 41-45, M
Unethical and I'll mannered.
Found like a self absorbed person
Found like a self absorbed person
solitaire · 41-45, F
@Reflection2 Yep
ElwoodBlues · M
Ghost him for a while. See if he shows any persistence in trying to get together.
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SW-User
Absolutely not lol
Caleidoscope · F
I won't. He's unreliable.
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Patientlywaiting · 46-50, F
Nah, it's just drinks. If I had tickets to go somewhere I'd be annoyed but at least he told you the truth about it.
MissingLink · 51-55, M
I would leave him be for a while, seems you are not high on his list of priorities
Trekker · 51-55, M
Wrong. So many levels. I have a lot of words but. Wrong fits best
bentonlake · 61-69, F
Wouldn't worry about him.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Gone!!!
No.
bijouxbroussard · F
Nope, that would be it. Although I would be appreciative of him admitting that sex with another woman trumped drinks with me, so I’d have no regrets about writing him off.
Never make a priority of someone who only sees [b]you[/b] as an option.
Never make a priority of someone who only sees [b]you[/b] as an option.
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Are you romantically interested in him?
nonsensiclesnail · F
Annoying, but I could get over that and get on with my friendship.
He was honest.
He was honest.
exchrist · 31-35
3 times is my limit
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
Yea lets see what excuse he comes up with the second time
travelguy01 · 41-45, M
Sounds very shallow and flaky
solitaire · 41-45, F
@travelguy01 Yeah. I excused him this time. Next time if he suggests we meet I'll ask him to confirm whether his schedule is free
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
Nah, that’s so rude so why bother
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He is known as a good fisherman
Ghost him
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solitaire · 41-45, F
@SW-User Yep