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For the first time in my life, I was open about my feelings after a breakup with a friend

We walked around and I cried like an idiot and told her everything. It really helped me a lot.

I am still hurting badly but it felt good to have her validate my feelings. I've never been strong enough to tell someone before, it was embarrassing but I hurt too much to care, and if I was left alone I probably would have done shitty things to myself

And I just can't be doing that shit anymore. Anyway, I teach this morning so hopefully I can sleep a bit more. I am feeling very raw and unprepared haha. At least my headache is gone

I fell asleep with a bag of frozen blueberries on my head haha
SW-User
I hope it was good to get out those feelings and, possibly, cathartic. Sometimes you need to let those things out with the person immediately affecting you, as otherwise, you'll bottle them up and cast yourself in ways you shouldn't. I've been hurt by friends before, and I've never been able to truly address them with them.

My saving grace, for me, is I always have tried with partners. If I hadn't, I'd be an entire wreck emotionally.

Now take that bag of blueberries under your head, knowing you took a step in healing. 💙
Classified · M
It's good that you got to talk about it. Hopefully you can be more at ease now. 🥺

The blueberries thing is cute. 😌
Straylight · 31-35, F
It’s good to have a cry sometimes. It really helps.
caccoon · 36-40
@Straylight it does. 💙 I cried so hard, I got a bad headache but it had to be done
TrumpIsFinallyGone · 41-45, M
Good-luck to ya C I hope you find peace.
KiwiDan · 31-35, M
Proud of you 🤗
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I am so glad you got to talk to someone and get it out.

That shows real growth. So happy you had a friend to lean on.

I hope you are feeling better today 💜 and enjoy your class.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@caccoon you will forget him. He didn’t deserve you. I hope your class went well today.
caccoon · 36-40
@iamonfire696 he didn't, it's true. It was good, the students made good stuff. It was hard because I wanted to cry the whole time but I didn't 💙
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@caccoon I am glad you realize that.

I am glad your class went well and you were able to manage not to cry. I know that would have been hard to do. I am sure they appreciated your help in the class too.

 
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