most of the places I eat out offers veteran discounts

I've had past boyfriends...and even my former spouse become embarrassed when I've sent a meal back in a restaurant. They became annoyed with me for complaining about my food, when the wait person asked how it was.

It's perfectly reasonable to complain about a dish if there is something wrong with it. I didn't do anything wrong, and I was always polite about it. However, we can't account or control the perceptions of others. There is something within them that is so deep and complex that even they may not know why they react the way they do.

So it's something within her world view and perception, for whatever reason that view was shaped and formed. She seems to associate coupons with female activity like shopping, and probably thinks it's unmanly for a man to use one.

Just know, it's not you. The problem lies within her perception, and she probably does not view it as a problem, just a reality. I don't think you can change that, or even if you want to.

She seems to think its like a coupon and men shouldn't use them. I think

It's basically a benifit or bonus this establishment gives to those having served their country. That's no different than benifits and bonuses one gets from a job.

Enjoy your discount.

Have you asked your friend why she does not think this is appropriate?

Bob...I don't know what to say. It seems self evident that it's a benefit...
What's wrong with her :?

And Thank you! Xx

I think for serving and protecting our freedom you def should use it!!! Sorry but she is clueless!

I think your friend is possibly jealous and she should be grateful to those who have served and be happy that others give discounts for that.

Wow. I just find it odd that it would bother someone that a veteran used their discount card...

Yes she is

Is she America