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lol i went to a food truck 2 weeks ago for mediterranean food, and this 24 year old has been after me ever since....I am 41.

Within 2 days of knowing me he "wanted to be my king". Day 6: "loved me". Week 2: is thinking MARRIAGE.

All the while, I have been VERY clear I am not looking for anything, and am in fact just getting out of something.

He is 6'4", tatted, bearded, soulful eyes, long eyelashes, is 50% owner of 3 food trucks and a fourth business with his cousin, the works..but I'm just not feeling it..I can't help who I am attracted to.

All this to say: I find it hilarious that when I sent him a few selfies from yesterday, today, he said: "You went out like this?"

He thinks I am in a relationship with him, and in his lil delulu mind..he can tell me he doesn't LIKE black nail polish..wants me to cut my hair shorter (I'm growing it longer)..I dress too immodestly..doesn't want me getting more piercings..

All the while, even though I TELL HIM NOT TO, he gives me free food. I'm not going to say no to that 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Just funny how many guys say girls are like this...when guys live in their own minds all the timeee too.
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
Please be careful. This guy sounds like the type that might feel entitled or like "you're asking for it".
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@Dolimyte thank you sincerely for the warning..it is something i have considered for sure. he doesnt know where i live, and we have only ever seen each other at the food truck
Montanaman · M
Enjoy it till it becomes too much! Free food! 👍👍🤪😋🥰
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@Montanaman gyro, shawarma, hummus, omggg..and 1.6 miles from my houseee
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
@foldedunfolding JFC I’ll pretend I’m gay and date this guy if I could get all that free food 😋 😂
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@luckranger71 lmaooo it is like 20 bucks of it too..i have said to him multiple times not to give me free food, but he said, "you are going to make me mad if you don't accept it..this is as close as i can get to taking you on dates right now"
deadgerbil · 22-25, F
It's time to create distance
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@deadgerbil as far as he can throw the food/as far as i can catch it
WillaKissing · 56-60
I would have to see proof of half ownership if I were you, to me it sounds like he thinks you would be a good sugar momma and "OMG" on the control issues he is already throwing at you. Take the free food and nothing else.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@WillaKissing haha i see where you are coming from..let's just say, i know of the criminal activities that got him that money
WillaKissing · 56-60
@foldedunfolding And those possible gang or prison related tattoo's too!
IamBack · 31-35, M
Why are you sending him pics and leading him on and know all those details about him? 🤔

Why did you even share any sort of personal contact info with the guy? 🤔
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@IamBack never did i proclaim victimhood? nor did i ask a single question for you to follow up on, in my post. thank you for your red pilled mansplanation xoxo
IamBack · 31-35, M
@foldedunfolding you’re welcome 😌
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LiLShrimp · 22-25, F
Probably stay away from that dude. Giving him any more attention is gonna fuel his delulu even more.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@LiLShrimp yeah i sadly am going to have to eventually cut it off. just sucks to finally have the best food 1.6 miles awayyy brooo 😫😫😫
PoeticPlay · 51-55, M
The heart wants what the stomach wants!

Shwammmmmma. 🤤
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@PoeticPlay lmaooo wellll said
Huckleberry42 · 41-45, M
@foldedunfolding Do you believe you are the first person he's done this with? It's possible but it seems full of red flags yes. Especially when he said "this is the only way I can go on dates with you" part.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@Huckleberry42 y'all don't get it..i'm not trying to be with this man lol
Huckleberry42 · 41-45, M
@foldedunfolding Yeah I do get it. Not going for a while or at all would send the loudest most obvious of messages.
RedGrizzly · 26-30, F
Hmmmn, this can go either way tbh. On one hand, just because he's a 24 year old guy, there's the benefit of the doubt he's a more mature than he lets on and that this is innocent in nature. Some guys know nothing is going to come out of this but continue to play this courting game just for the sake of doing it for someone they really adore. You'd be surprised, some guys will move mountains just to see a girl they're crazy about smile and just for that (awwww). It's like a dog at the end of its chain. All he can do is stand there and bark, he would know that.....OOOOOOORRRRR he's thinking with his head (no, the other one) and is just lying to himself that he can somehow riz you up regardless. But, personally, if I wasn't so scarred, I'd just leave it as is if he has the understanding that you're just not that into him and he doesn't get all pushy about it.
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
Definitely a lot of red flags
But at the least take it as a compliment 😅
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@foldedunfolding But sounds like he wants to tip top you😝
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@JRVanguard and that's fine..he wouldnt be the first to want that lol..but i have made sure he doesnt know where i live haha
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@foldedunfolding Smart😌
Try to be less scorching hot, that’ll probably do the trick
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@DrawntoaDistance lmao nah i'm not at all, but thank you 😘
Pinkystar · 31-35, F
Hmm
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@Pinkystar indeed
Metalbarbie · 22-25, F
Lol I think your intuitions are right that your not feeling it. Hell probably be a controlling maniac telling you how to dress act and everything every day.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
You should gradually start talking to him more and more like his mother. Just ease into it. See what he does.
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foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@mooncrest02 haha aw thank you..but yeah like i truly dont want to break his heart. he is in a very controlling muslim family, and he feels kinda imprisoned right now. i almost represent "the outside world" to him i guess.
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foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@Degbeme hahahahaha that guy never gets olddd
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foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@MethDozer the same people adjudicating that i am leading him on by sending pics of my nude..FACE..are the same who would blame the woman for not seeing through insane love 💣'ing were i to be hurt in the end. for me never to tell him i love him..inform him i am still not over another guy..then have him graduate to wanting to MARRY me..this is beyond self-infliction on his part lol
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mooncrest02 · 31-35, F
@foldedunfolding it is, just funny.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@mooncrest02 i'll keep it a buck with you: am i an my villain arc a little these past few weeks? mayyybe 🤏 im over being the chick waiting for a guy to administer his verdict on me
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
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foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@ShenaniganF00die ok if you want to be added to the men who feed me roster, just say that 😅✍️💅
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