lol i went to a food truck 2 weeks ago for mediterranean food, and this 24 year old has been after me ever since....I am 41.

Within 2 days of knowing me he "wanted to be my king". Day 6: "loved me". Week 2: is thinking MARRIAGE.

All the while, I have been VERY clear I am not looking for anything, and am in fact just getting out of something.

He is 6'4", tatted, bearded, soulful eyes, long eyelashes, is 50% owner of 3 food trucks and a fourth business with his cousin, the works..but I'm just not feeling it..I can't help who I am attracted to.

All this to say: I find it hilarious that when I sent him a few selfies from yesterday, today, he said: "You went out like this?"

He thinks I am in a relationship with him, and in his lil delulu mind..he can tell me he doesn't LIKE black nail polish..wants me to cut my hair shorter (I'm growing it longer)..I dress too immodestly..doesn't want me getting more piercings..

All the while, even though I TELL HIM NOT TO, he gives me free food. I'm not going to say no to that 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Just funny how many guys say girls are like this...when guys live in their own minds all the timeee too.

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@Selah im not going to lie..there was an initial attraction for sure..but it fizzled out, esp with all the red flags

Huckleberry42 · 46-50, M

@foldedunfolding Do you believe you are the first person he's done this with? It's possible but it seems full of red flags yes. Especially when he said "this is the only way I can go on dates with you" part.

Huckleberry42 · 46-50, M

@foldedunfolding Yeah I do get it. Not going for a while or at all would send the loudest most obvious of messages.