What is a CHARACTER quality (nothing physical)... ...that makes you go, "it's a NO from me,...

UpsideOutInsideDown · 41-45, M Best Comment

The sort of people who laugh loudest at their boss's unfunny joke while acting like the janitor isn't a real person

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

Oneupmanship. Immediate turn off.

I'm totally cool with swapping similar stories, it's a great way to find a connection and relate to someone. But when their stories aways gotta top your shared experiences, it's off putting.

BohemianBabe · M

I cannot SUFFER a mansplain-y, always smooth but full of it, misogynist of a can't listen to different perspectives, petulant child of a man.

Sounds like someone is having her time of the month.

yugimotodm · 26-30, M

Lack of empathy is a deal breaker for me

Livingwell · 61-69, M

I'm with Bexsy. Lack of respect for others.

Bexsy

Rude to others. If they're going to be rude to staff in restaurants etc. That tells me a lot

Dusty101 · F

"A one upper"
Let's say I did a parachute jump, they would have to one up me or anyone by saying they did it it without a parachute!
A complete NO from me!

Haniazed

I don’t like people who have to vocalize their dissatisfactions with other people around them, their appearance, behavior, or just whatever, when they know absolutely nothing about them.

For example, you see a car with Florida plate parking crooked in a parking spot and they say “Jesus, is this how everyone fucking park in Florida?” Shit like that…I mean you can think it but was it really necessary to vocalize it and loudly so that they might possibly hear you?😅🤦🏻‍♂️

It’s definitely a turn-off for me.

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WillaKissing · 56-60, M

#1. Not accepting me for how I choose to live my life and assuming I am gay or Bi just because I am a cross dresser.
#2. Drama of any kind.
#3. Controlling and manipulative.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

"Enough about me...what do YOU think of my new hairstyle?"

Ducky · 31-35, F

Anyone who puts the cock in "cocky", I'm out.