What is a CHARACTER quality (nothing physical)...

...that makes you go, "it's a NO from me, dawg"...when it comes to the dating realm?

One of my biggest is arrogance.

I cannot SUFFER a mansplain-y, always smooth but full of it, misogynist of a can't listen to different perspectives, petulant child of a man.

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Starcrossed · 41-45, F

Oneupmanship. Immediate turn off.

I'm totally cool with swapping similar stories, it's a great way to find a connection and relate to someone. But when their stories aways gotta top your shared experiences, it's off putting.

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@Starcrossed great one!!

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

@foldedunfolding my brother-in-law is a master of this trait. 😆

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

I'd have gone with narcissism but I've been suckered by a few in my day, thinkin' the wolf in sheep's clothing was all suave. Some lessons we learn the hard way.

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@Starcrossed OMG MY BROTHER IN LAW TOO!!!!!!! at one point he was trying to brag about how many people he is king over, and my brother said.."oh you have 6? I have 25."..bc my brother in law was trying to flex. it was hillllaaariousss

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@Starcrossed so i guess..technically..my brother was the 19-upper there..but he did it to point out the not-so-subtle way my BIL was attempting to one up ppl who werent even in the ring