any advice for first time hotwife experience Any one been in the same postion as me,i really...

exexec · 61-69, C

Make sure you agree on what is acceptable and what is not.

What about in person? Do you want to do a friend or someone you know? Maybe try a swing club. If I remember, they check for STDs. No telling if you go to a pub a pick up some random guy. Does your husband want to watch or take photos, or just know you were on a date and safely home?

Hopefully you've discussed first and agreed on boundaries of what is allowable and what is off limits.

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

There has to be full mutual trust I would say - just like with any normal threesome type arrangement. Any resentment/jealousy/etc. and it won't work.

I've never had threesomes, etc. and my first ex tried to 'repair' our failing relationship by offering one (with another guy) but I couldn't do it. That was over 10 yrs ago.

LookingIn · M

Take it slow. Step at a time. And enjoy the steps

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beaglehunter · 70-79, M

will your husband go down on you when you do it and come back home and tell him

MsSwan

@empanadas

Convivial · 26-30, F

The longest journey begins with the first step...

Greyjedi · M

Learn his chart especially his 8th house and lilith signs. Learning his 11th 7th and fifth and 10th houses. If he has a rough 10th house it will be difficult being seen with him.

SalttyDawg · 70-79, M

It’s my understanding that the hubby wants to hear all about your adventures and how much you enjoyed it.
So there is nothing for you to overcome but enjoy yourself 😉😛