Do men look at the body that much when fucking ?? Do they care about fat

Most men do not expect you to be perfect, and base much of their attraction of you on personality as much as your body.

Even being not too participatory isn't necessarily a bad thing.

I would suggest that you all meet up with this other couple non-sexually and see how you all get along. You might take one look at them and say no way. Or you might get along so well that your anxiety will be relieved.

Whatever you do, don't go into this just because your boyfriend wants to do it for him. Only do it because you want to do it for yourself.

most look at women the same way they look at a ham sandwich

If she's doing backflips, we're ALL in trouble!

FIRST
I think you should share your concerns.

Have you done MMF, FFM, etc.? Do you like doing women? Be open about your concerns.

SECOND
You can improve ALL of your weaker areas:

1) You CAN get better in bed, and that will be a good thing for you & any partners!

2) You CAN lose weight, and that will ALSO help you feel better! And doing it while you are young is very smart!

3) You CAN gain confidence, and that will help you across the board!

AND--these are MUTUALLY REINFORCING: if you get better in bed, and lose a little weight, you'll feel better AND be more confident!

BUT...these take time.

You can start now, though:

1) skills

a) What are you [i]better[/i] at? BUILD THAT TO BE AMAZING!

b) What are you [i]worst[/i] at? SHORE THAT UP!

RIGHT NOW:
- Search for articles & vids about "how to" do whatever; there are TONS.

- WITH the other girl: If she seems to habe mad skills...ASK her: "Wow! The guys really like how you <whatever you want to learn from her>! I'm impressed! Could you please show me what youndo or what to keep in mind so I can improve my own skills?"

2) Body
a) What are you best body parts according to your guy and to you? EMPHASIZE THEM!

b) What are your worst? DE-EMPHASIZE THEM! You said you have back rolls & love handles--wear a see-through babydoll negligee to cover your back but show skin through the see-through fabric.

REMEMBER--YOU ARE SELLING A MOOD...so make your nails great, maje your lips great, do your eyes to look hot/slutty...if you look hoy, ready, available, open, they'll LOVE it!

3) Confidence...

Remember...we ALL feel confident AND not confident! If you pick up a few tips and look hot--BE confident!

For me definitely yes, I love looking at a girl's body when I'm fucking her and it doesn't matter her weight , I like kissing her body all over, don't feel insecure remember there'll be 2 cocks to fuck.

for me I was looking out the window,to see if her husband was coming home,,

Once I’m inside I don’t care, all the attraction has been started before we start fucking.

Sounds like u need some backflips and riding him practice before the 4some

Ok,i say NO to any of this.
If you dont want to do this,say no.If he loved you,why would he want a foursome,he shags another girl and you have to let another boy have you..
Seems wrong.Say no.

Speaking from a woman who has been there, be open & honest, and express how you truly feel before getting involved.

Being in good physical shape pays dividends in your sex life.

Try double penetration while you're at it.

Is the other girl bi? She may want to eat you out too.

If you are not sure, don't do it.

SO any updates on that. What you do is up to you miss

Only to see the reactions on They're face !

Don’t worry about it and enjoy yourself.

do what YOU want and not what he wants.

Say no

I love to have sex with full bodied women. I enjoy lovely big breasts to look at and kiss and caress. In the heat of passion the imperfections of our bodies fade as we enjoy the pleasure!

Nah,once you got a girls panties off we are pretty easy going.
But you know what,unless YOU feel ok dont do it.

Do you want to have a 4 some?

Who tf has time for backflips