If she's doing backflips, we're ALL in trouble!
FIRST
I think you should share your concerns.
Have you done MMF, FFM, etc.? Do you like doing women? Be open about your concerns.
SECOND
You can improve ALL of your weaker areas:
1) You CAN get better in bed, and that will be a good thing for you & any partners!
2) You CAN lose weight, and that will ALSO help you feel better! And doing it while you are young is very smart!
3) You CAN gain confidence, and that will help you across the board!
AND--these are MUTUALLY REINFORCING: if you get better in bed, and lose a little weight, you'll feel better AND be more confident!
BUT...these take time.
You can start now, though:
1) skills
a) What are you better at? BUILD THAT TO BE AMAZING!
b) What are you worst at? SHORE THAT UP!
RIGHT NOW:
- Search for articles & vids about "how to" do whatever; there are TONS.
- WITH the other girl: If she seems to habe mad skills...ASK her: "Wow! The guys really like how you <whatever you want to learn from her>! I'm impressed! Could you please show me what youndo or what to keep in mind so I can improve my own skills?"
2) Body
a) What are you best body parts according to your guy and to you? EMPHASIZE THEM!
b) What are your worst? DE-EMPHASIZE THEM! You said you have back rolls & love handles--wear a see-through babydoll negligee to cover your back but show skin through the see-through fabric.
REMEMBER--YOU ARE SELLING A MOOD...so make your nails great, maje your lips great, do your eyes to look hot/slutty...if you look hoy, ready, available, open, they'll LOVE it!
3) Confidence...
Remember...we ALL feel confident AND not confident! If you pick up a few tips and look hot--BE confident!
