What in your opinion makes a person sexy, hot, desirable whatever word you thi k?

Tight clothes

It’s the way they carry themselves. And this includes personality, body type, intelligence, etc.

And there’s also that attraction preference. What I find sexy may not be sexy by your attraction criteria/standards.

It can be any number of those things. One guy I adored was generally considered plain by others. But he was a kind person, and if you spent [b]any[/b] time talking with him, you discovered he had a wonderful, intelligent sense of humor. And when he smiled or laughed (which he rarely did), he was [b]beautiful[/b]. 😊

I'm honestly not sure. Some women are sexy in a turtleneck sweater and others aren't even when naked. Confidence came to mind as well, but being a bit shy can greatly enhance sexiness too. I haven't found any clear pattern yet. It's just a personal quality, I guess.

I'm sure that I'm not sure. It isnt any one thing, at least nothing I can pin down.

I've become enchanted without ever seeing the person, just maybe talking or via email. Then when I did meet them or see a picture, her appearance simply didn't matter. So it isn't purely physical. I've also been enchanted seeing someone across the room... until i actually talked to them, so hot isn't it either.

So yeah, I can't say it is this or that.

EDIT: In the interest of being sincere/honest, it is true that looks do have a play in it, but mostly just a play in it.

Intelligence and the way they think. I want a man to be completely superior to me and most other people. I find it so exciting when they are very knowledgeable and demonstrably different and better than the average person, specifically in terms of intellect 🤭 I like dominant men.

Physically they need to be 5'11 ft or over. 6'1-6'3 is perfect 💖 I like a muscular frame but nothing extreme...just a guy who isn't skinny lol.

For me it is personality most of the time.. when someone is intelligent and kind, I am always attracted. Probably looks will matter, but I think I place more weight on how they think and behave. Because when someone is superficial, it doesn't matter how handsome they are, I hardly if EVER feel attracted the least.

Let's be honest, it is mostly body type.
Without that, none of those other things are going to really help.
Basically "If the canvas is bad, the paint won't matter."

I can't define it. My wife never considered herself to be sexy, but she drove some guys crazy....including me. Her smile, the way she looked at you, her touch, and having a beautiful face and nice body, even with small boobs, were a bonus.

Yes

Sense of humor,intelligence, compassionate ,kind,confident but not arrogant, ..looks really aren't important to me tbh looks fade eventually

To me, it’s an assortment of the things ya mentioned it ultimately it’s all gotta work with their personality

It is definitely the way they think. They can use their brain to say and do the things that turn others on and make them week in the knees.

It starts with how they think. Then how they carry themselves that gives the look the walk the talk etc

There are more types of sexiness in my books. 😅 But all of the above matters.

Personality and confidence are key. A great sense of humor is also good

There personality is what makes people sexy in my opinion

Personality....
"The most important sex organ is the brain"

Hey, these days, as long as they like me, they're hot 🤷🏻‍♀️

Its a healthy mix of all personality mannerism style

Physical characteristics and personality....
50% each of those.

Nipples obviously 🙄

My Venus is in Gemini. I like everything.

All the above except for clothes

For me its the whole package

Personality and intelligence

by the way they lick an ice cream ....

Hmm good question ...

All of that, and more.

Confidence

Someone confident enough in themselves to be vulnerable

All of the above and more

I don't even know anymore, I'm so closed off to most of these things. Maybe if she can whistle the theme tune to Knight Rider 🤔

Intelligence, empathy, sense of humour (or at least laughs at my crappy jokes), playfulness, wit. And also having stuff in common.

If someone walks in the room and has presence

Confidence, kindness, and doesn't take shit

🤔

Compassionate, intelligent, kind, sense of humour, how they carry themselves and how they treat others