Not the best mum

Do your best (what your best is will go up and down everyday) Your boys will know if your trying. My son is 30 now and I am amazed at the good things he remembers. To hear him tell it I was a lot better dad that I thought I was. Just do your best whatever that may be.

You're doing the best you can. And I'm sure it's helping your boys more than you realize.

All parents feel pretty much the same way I think. I know it was the same for me. We all make mistakes, it isn't like you get a set of directions with the baby, you have to figure it out as you go. In the end, it seems like giving too much seems to make them have less respect for what they have. Most of the time, not being able to afford something is eventually understood. My advice would be to pay attention to them, keep getting beat at their games, and show them that you love them. They will turn out okay.

In my eyes the best mum is the one who will always try to do better and not the one where everything comes easy to them.

You sound like an awesome mom to me 🙂

Sounds pretty awesome to me.

Just let them know you love them that's the most important thing. You can get into their music. Talk to them and learn their stuff. You sound like you're there and you try and you love them and that's a good thing.

Bless you for doing your best!

Come back. Your perspective is very valuable here and SW says that you are "away".

Soundslike you are doing a pretty good job

If that's what bothers you , I'd say you're an excellent mum 👍

That's, unfortunately, life