@valobasa4ever That’s a lot of pressure to carry, especially when you’re not there yet.

There’s nothing wrong with not being ready. Marriage isn’t something you do to satisfy other people’s timelines.

Your life has to make sense to you first.

@DancingStarGoddess Very ewww!

@zonavar68 Ab I hear those words grouped together and I’m looking over my shoulder for my ex lol

@Ducky I can imagine 😄

@Lugwho My grandma and my uncle used to get into tiffs over this.
He would get something out of the cupboard with intentions to go back to grab something else and she would shut the cupboard in a huffy maner.
It was actually pretty funny.

@Adrift Sounds familiar, but I'm your grandma.

@rosesandsmiles Don't worry, I'm an inheritance inconvenience and if my mother, sister and stepmother could have me whacked they would. What will happen when mum kicks the bucket is I'll get some tiny amount of money, so it'll make it harder for me to contest the will. Not that I plan to, they're all a bunch of crazy people, I plan to stay away from them all. But they're evil and so they assume everyone else is evil, it'd never occure to them that I want nothing to do with them or their money.

You see?

@Allelse Yea… that paints a pretty clear picture

@rosesandsmiles They were always going on about all kinds of different ways to hide money, like burying it in the backyard, opening a bank account in a grandchild's name and hiding money there.