I see what you mean. But Jesus -church has removed that from common knowledge- was a married man too (with Mary of Magdalen), a father even, knowing he was a Jew (as I am) he believed -as common In Judaism- sex is not only for reproduction but also for pleasure and cementing the relationshilp. This implies passion and man and wife don’t communicate in sex in ‘biblical language’.Some words I absolutely don’t use in social context, I do use ‘in bed’ where ‘dirty talk’ can be very functional.
My parents saw it more as a class issue, often saying that people resort to profanity at the point when their vocabulary has failed them. They believed that to be true for both men and women.
But organized religions tend to be misogynistic, which is why I no longer belong to one. I don’t curse because I don’t need to. But I also don’t feel the need to judge women who do.
@bijouxbroussard When I was a kid I thought it was a sign of a lack of class and intelligence but life taught me that even very smart and respectable people can cuss and it doesn't take away from them. What they do and say apart from it matters much more.
You do realise that a large number of people on SW (and everywhere else) don't rely on the "bible" to apparently live their lives....because they're (myself, included) neither christian or any other religion?
Whether language counts as crude or not depends greatly on the context and the situation.
I'm non-religious though at one time did 'dabble' in being Christian but found the hypocrisy too much to take, so I saw though it and abandoned it. I don't need or want to have a book of stories tell me how to life my life.
What's wrong with sarcasm? Is it not ok to be critical of others words, actions, presentation, demeanour, etc. where appropriate or is one meant to take a 'bury the head in the sand' approach?
@jefferson sex and lust are hard to tamed they are animalistic in nature. it makes people feel like animals because they have no control over it. I know sexual secrets that are more beautiful but I don't share them. They can brighten romance.
What neat posting you wrote. Perhaps I could counter, however, that many a hars person who's kind and generous nevertheless is indeed a bit more worthy of our intention. It's not the language that is used at times that is too inappropriate but the intend
Not really into people or books telling me or any woman how to live. Especially not some silly words.
I've met just as many graceless women who don't swear as women who scream feminity while swearing up a storm. Depends on the context and manner. Generally, equanimity is the goal.
@nevergiveup Define 'talking correctly' in your context please? I find a large portion of people can't speak and spell properly to begin with, somewhat due to poor education in school and from parents during early childhood.
Idk if you are serious or trolling but i agree completely so Thank you for the reminder/update. Cheers
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You solve a mystery, I'm jealous of your husband of having a woman a great woman. tell your husband to show you respect and not lack self-control. Don't demand more than what the husband can't provide.