child support?

my sons father doesnt want to help me and wants to guve up his rights because i dont want to be with him and i dont think thats fair because he has a huge settlement and i need help and i would ask him for help he tells me he will give up his rights. If i apply for child support will he still be ordered to pay child support because this isnt fair!! Everyday hes telling me im going to suffer and its not fair at all , he constantly dangles how he has 100 k in his account because his mom died in a hospital.. regardless of the fact, men should not be able to run from responsibilities!!

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TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP

As a man.
Imagine being told you can no longer see you kids unless you pay $$$.

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout I think he would be more worried about going to jail if he doesn't pay then seeing the child

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TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP

@4meAndyou ok.
Imagine as a women. Your told you can no longer see the kids unless you pay money..
I’m not condoning his non- payment…
Just saying..

4meAndyou · F

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout If I had a child and lost custody, or shared custody, I would fully expect to pay child support. I am so sick of these whiny people who don't want to acknowledge that their own children can't live on one low paycheck.

TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP

@4meAndyou your missing the point.
And I hope You’al never get told those words..
pay money or no kids

4meAndyou · F

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout No. I am not missing the point. If you have kids, you support the kids. The end.